Getting angry and using bad words
By thanks1961
@thanks1961 (7035)
India
September 16, 2010 1:08am CST
It is quite often we may get angry on several reasons. The level of anger also may be depend on the subject and issue. I have seen may people used bad words when they get angry. Are you such a person, you say bad words when you feel angry and become normal after some time.
Like to know your comments on this.
Thank-s
4 responses
@joyce318 (139)
• China
17 Sep 10
Many people will shout at someone or be craze when they are very angry. But for me, it is contrary. I will keep silent when I am unhappy. Stay alone with silence. No word, no emotion. I will never say to the person who make me angry. After apology by him, I will tell him/her why I was angry last time.
Some people will eat something to transfer the indignation.
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
16 Sep 10
Hiya thanks,
If you have been surrounded by People since you were small that use "bad words" as an everyday language then you are very likely to be influenced by them through no fault of your own.
Time goes on and you probably might not think anymore of it about using those bad words until someone or something tells you that it is not right.
You know these People sometimes and in fact most times in spite of all that bad use of language have a "heart of gold". I have found this often to be like that I have been surrounded by these people most of my life and although I don´t use that kind of language myself I have done it but it is really not surprising the habit is always there till you cultivate it to moderate your language and your anger.
When I am back with these People I don´t cringe when they use that language as they still do I see more inside of them but that is because I know them and know that they don´t really mean it what they say at least not in a bad way.
Different case is when I hear someone that I don´t know using very bad words it sounds awful and grates on you a bit.
Sounds terrible especially in Films and Series but then I have to remember that they are only the same as the People I have known but live in different places.
If someone steps on your feet enough then you can get to be really angry of course you can and words that you never mean to say come out we are only Human after all.
Only way of explaining this is what I have put up above. It´s a good thing to cultivate your speech but if you feel like using bad words inside that is because the anger needs to be modified itself.
Hard to learn and some People never learn it in a lifetime.
@AvI0907 (230)
• Malaysia
16 Sep 10
my friends around me always come out with vulgar words when getting anger and make uncomfortable to mingle with them because they would did at public place. If one's using vulgar words, people would rated us as low class status person. My parents are very angry if one of my sibling even me using bad words in conversation. They straight forward would scolded us and trained us to talk politely. For me, bad words is not a rule that we can use when we getting anger or to point others that you are angry. Actually, we can use our tones to express out our anger or use other symbolic term to replace the bad words as long as it's not a rude words.