Getting angry and using bad words

I don't use foul words when i'm angry for any reasons, i would be sad and will become normal after sometime.. But there are times, where me and my friends group use a lot of foul words..This is not because of anger, it's because of Fun and every sentence we speak it will come as the mixture of foul words..just like that..I have a friend, that before starting a sentence, he would use one common regional foul word.. These coarse language is common only in metro city..not in rural areas, when we went for a tour to rural areas, the folks saw our conversation and they decided on hat instant that we come from the metro city !!

Hi thanks, Actually I am very angry to hear the bad words if some body use on anger. I can’t appreciate that method of burst out the anger. I felt that those who have the habit of using bad words make themselves ‘smaller’. It reflects the negative attitude of that person. I may scold people on anger but with right words only.

I don't normally use bad words. If I do, you can bet, I am really furious about something. I do not think it helps in any way, it just slips out.

When people get angry most of them are unable to control what they speak out and many let out their anger using the bad words that you refer to. I have known many people around who are of this kind. When I was young, I too had little control on my anger and nearly spoke whatever came off my mouth at that point. One day I heard someone shouting and rebuking angrily on someone outside our house. I went out to find that the guy who was shouting was a mentally challenged person. That moment, I do not know how/why, I felt that if I keep shouting these bad words someday I too would be like him. Since then I have been cautious not to speak those foul or bad words at least not when I am angry. But over the period I have picked up many other bad words but I havent been using them. I would also like to share that if you are angry, try counting 100 to 1 (in reverse order). It helps me control my anger. Regards, Sids

I don't say bad words when I'm angry....I don't want to hurt others even if I'm angry.

i think saying words like this in times you are angry is just a man's nature,but if you can calm the situation in a nice manner is much better than saying bad words.although most of us can't avoid saying this kind of words,but if we can why not do so..you should also consider who you are talking to and where you are, of course ypu don't want to say this bad words in public,right you will get embarass if you do so..

I ONLY use bad words when I'm angry--sometimes it's all I can use! When I'm angry enough, my brain stops working, and I resort to using language that requires NO thinking for me! In fact I can still have a reasonable tone of voice, and the only way anyone knows I'm upset is from my quietly cursing. I'm not proud of it but I DO have the mouth of a truck driver when necessary!

I can 'cuss like a sailor' when i get mad. It's not something i'm proud of & thank heavens i don't have the things that make me that mad anymore. I don't do it as much as i use to.

I could say i am the person who sometime used bad words when i got angry. I don't know how to control it.When i'm in the middle of it i could just anything to that person because i can't control it anymore. I became irritated.After i finish bursting my anger to the person.I suddenly feel cool. I hope i could change it.

Woah! When was the last time i really fumed up? I cant even remember. But i do remember that whenever i get angry, i couldnt speak my native tongue, i speak straight english and i get all red-faced!

It depends on the situation --- if it is a stranger who had bothered me then he would loose his consciousness for sure.If it were someone who is close to me...my friends or someone i had loved then i would be silent (atleast i'm learning to stay calm these days) however there were cases when i had hurted a couple of friends and vice-versa.great day.

Well, for me I really do not start and end my sentences with a cuss word. When I am pissed I do not cuss too. Usually, you will hear me cuss when I am so fed up with a person and my feelings all got bottled up. That's when you will hear me CUSS really hard!

Well it really depends. I tend to get angry/annoyed pretty fast, so when it goes to far I gotta be honest I try to contain myself, but still I can't help myself, but use swearing words. It's not that it makes me cooldown faster, but I think it's just my automatic reaction to anger, but still I really ty to think first what I'll say as you can't take your words back later and some of them can really hurt. To say the least, I'm semi-successfull at it while I can't say the same for persons around me, so I think there's worser cursers than me, since I try hard to contain myself as much as I can, but of course then again, we're all humans and sometimes our nature works against us whether we want it or not and this one clear example where we should try to fight it back as it can only bring bad feelings or cosequences.

I am not that type of person. Because i know that it will just make me feel bad in the end. When i feel angry at one point, if i can contain it to myself, i will not say anything, but if i feel that i can't i just walk away and release the tension. I don't think that by saying bad words will make me feel normal again especially if i said it in front of someone else. it will make that person feel bad and the same goes for me. i try not to hurt other people as much as possible.

People get angry and use bad words because they have totally lost their cool and they have lost all control and they know it. When people resort to using bad words and losing their temper it is because they feel like they have no control. Best thing to do is to breathe, relax, look at the situation, and talk yourself out of it.

I only say it when I hit my toe or something or something doesn't work. I don't think I've used it on a person. Maybe only when I'm joking. When I'm serious, i don't think I use it.

When I get frustrated all sorts of interesting words show up! i don't know if i let my guard down when I am upset or what. I just know it gets worse when I am mad or upset. I really don't use curse words very much at all. unless I am upset!

I used bad words sometimes when I got too angry of something. But just because I am a patient type of person, and I can control myself quite well, so that kind of things rarely happens.

I have been known to totally lose my cool when I get peewuud. But one thing is for sure no foul language generates from my mouth. I know several people who cannot hold a discussion without the f word utilized in every other word. It angers me to hear people like this speak and not so much that I think they should be ashamed, but it embarrasses me to be standing there listening.

well I do not say bad words but when I do, then I must be really really mad.When I had a shouting match with my boss at my former office, my colleague said I had blurted out something bad. I really do not remember what I had said then. But, I guess yes, its in the degree and level of anger that will or might make you. Does it help to cuss? YES, A WHOLE WHOLE LOT!