What makes you say "I'll show him/her"?
By yoursjannat
@yoursjannat (839)
India
September 16, 2010 1:18am CST
Hi MyLotters,
Did you ever get through situations when somebody has hurt you and you eventually wanted to take revenge by showing that the person is no better than you.For example,I've a classmate who thinks that nobody could outsmart him in Mathematics and he always undermine others and his parts in discussion always volunteers his pride which otherwise hurt others.We always want to take score more than him,but as ill luck would have it,we never suceeded.Yes,he is very strong in mathematics.But we never liked the way he speaks and look us down upon.
Did you ever face such a kind of situation that makes you feel like "I'll show him"?Do you think it's justified?Had there been no such feelings could we succeeded to score more than him?Would you please share with us?
Thanks
Happy MyLotting!!
1 response
@sjhaeki (795)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
I've felt that way a few times. Like having my pride hurt or having my competitive side flare up, when I'm mostly the lazy type of person. Out of the few times I said, it mostly becomes a sort of new reason to try harder where ever it may be. So that person can look down on me in one aspect but being good on other things, more things than him would give me more reason to well somehow go 'in your face!'. Just like that classmate of your who is good in Math. You might look more onto him and see what else he is good at and what he isn't and strike him there.
But you see, I think trying to outsmart someone or overtake someone in his specialty whether we succeed or not helps us improve in that subject/area. Yes, if we fail, we get looked down upon again but then if that becomes our source of strength to do better in what we do, we could become someone better than that person and not just on his expertise but on his weakness as well.
I'm still on that path of trying to prove myself to the person who I think is making me feel bad. Revenge conotates negativity but it can be expressed in a positive way especially for us.