What do you think about your bestfriend? Share your ideas?
@luukimlong2000 (658)
Vietnam
September 16, 2010 3:19am CST
I don't have so much best friends.
I have two boy best friends and 1 girl best friends.
They are very friendly and we share many things.
I think they have a really good personality and attitule.
The girl I maintion about, we have a really close relationship.
I don't know what will we be in the future. We send so much message to each other. Totally about 20000 messages.
Do you think between us happen some other relationship, not just only a close friends.
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18 responses
@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
If you have one best friend like you say, It means you are a lucky girl. Have one best friend in life is not an easy thing for many many people. If you have one, please treat your best friend like what they do for you. Some one say that, how much you send, you will receive that much things. Consider about what I say, It's my own expericence.
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
16 Sep 10
Oh man! 20.000 messages? Surely 26 letters are not enough for you two!
Well, I have one boy best friend and one girl best friend. We are close at each other, and what brings us together is not only because we seek comfort to each other, but sometimes we are fighting, argumenting, even brawling to each other.
Then how we call each other best friend? That's because we understand each other.
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
Sometimes you will get a trouble with your relationship, it happen to everyone. DOn't care about it because I think just a short time, if you and your best friend really known each other, everything will fine again. If everything come worse, the best way to renew the relationship is say sorry to your friend, although if you are not false.
THe word "Sorry" has a very big effect to everyone.
Use it in the right time will help you so much.
@cyatibarra (123)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
of course, i also have a lot of friends, but i only have few best fiends, we do have a lot of things in common. when one opens a secret to me it means something to me, i feel that im trustworthy that's why in return i trust them also, friendship is about sharing, understanding and trusting each other. doing all the things you have in common and enjoying each company, but dont forget that each individual is different so you have to respect some traits or privacy of your bestfriend too. other than that, love her or him so the friendship will last forever. best of luck to you! :0
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
I agree with you, friendship is a part of our life, if we know what we really want in our bestfriend. It will help me to have more opportunity to make your relationship last forever. I think you can be a really really good friend, lucky to your friends. Hope you will have more friends who are really know you and can sharing so much things with you.
@misalax (307)
• Ireland
16 Sep 10
I have lots of friends, but I got 2 bestfriends. They are those ones that are different to the other friends in certain ways. One of my bestfriends lives far away now and it saddens me. We haven't seen each other for 4 consecutive years, and it was so much of mixed feelings when we met again. Now I'm moving back to my home country which is near hers, and I'm happy for that. We talk about and open about a lot of things, I'm the person she can cry on to when she has problems, and we both never failed in aiding each other.
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
It's great for me to hear your story. I think there are still many many people can be friends and even best friend. I like all of my friends, I really want to share things with them becasue I think in this life, we cannot live alone, we need to have people to share feeling, to commuincate, to be friend. I think you have a really great friend, try to be friendly to have more friends.
@pastorlamont (184)
• United States
16 Sep 10
I tell ya, the greatest relationships in life that have the potential to become romantic are among the best! So many people get involved with the another person for intimacy and that's such a poor foundation. One of the benefits I share with my wife is that we can actually carry an intelligent conversation with each other! Imagine that! It's not just about what goes on behind closed doors, but our friendship has allowed us to share our ideas, concepts, and develop one another. Her strengths compliment my weaknesses and vice/versa...you're on the right track my friend...I pray that the relationship grows; just so that it's God's will for you to be together...it'll happen.
@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
I agree with you. In our relationship, anything can happen.
We don't know what will happen in the next minute, the next hour, the next day.
I think all of my relationship are valuable for me, I love all the person I have a close relationship with. I think you will agree with me about that.
@khoikhoi (93)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
Everyone needs a best friend. I think my best friend is always there for me when my down or having problems. My best friend is the person I can always rely on for anything no matter what. My best friend stick up for me even if I am wrong.
Good friendships equal honesty between us. There are no lies within our friendship because in order to be a good friend we have to be trusted.
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
I beleive to have a great relationship with your friends or best friend. First of all, you have to trust your friends. Then, share ideas with them, encouage them whenever they feel lonely, sad. Another point is that, you should pay attention when they share their feeling with you, look at their eyes, use your ears to hear what they say, use your heart to feel it, you your brain to think about it.
I think if I can do the same things, I can have a really really good relationship with my friends, and my best friend.
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
I keep lots of friends for so long. We've been all together for more than 20 years. Though most of us have families, still the communication are intact as before. But of course, many friends means, different personalities. But because we know each other for so long, we're already adjusted with each other differences. Friends for me are people who will tell who you are but accept and understand who you are. Among these people I had 1 girl and 1 boy as best friends. Literally best. My friend, my enemy, my siblings, my reflection and my savior. And their friendship not ended just for me, but it was extended up to my whole family. They are not simply my best friend, but like a family member as well. And I'm blessed for having these people in my life.
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
Your friendship was more than 20 years, it means you and your friends, your best friends really know each other. Lucky to you. I hope I can with my best friends have more deeper relationship. I always try my best to make all of my friends feel good when talking with me.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
16 Sep 10
Many things which i likes about my best friend.. he always helped me.. in any situation.. and he never say me no for help.. i like this thing.. and also he always supports me for doing something good in life..
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
How about you, do you help him when he has a trouble? I think you should do the smae things that he do for you because you are friends. The word "friendship" in my opinon is the very beautiful word, I like this word and the meaning of the word so much. Some of my friends joke that: It means, there are so many friends in the same ship. I think it sound funny.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
17 Sep 10
Yes, you're right. We usually have many relationships. Almost them are communications to work or to study. I also have some close friends and they're wonderful. They share every things with me.
@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
17 Sep 10
You are so lucky, Having a great friend to share and discuss soem common things are so great to me.
Lucky I have these friends, so I will keep contact with they forever will not very serous happen with our relationship.
@ergfortes (516)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
there are two persons in my life i consider my best friends. My boy friend and one girl friend i met in the office. My boy friend is my best friend because i can tell him everything about me, my secrets, my past, and he accepted me for who i am. Though he's far from me, he still comforts me when i'm down and laugh with me when i'm happy. This other best friend i have is a girl friend who happens to be there anywhere i go, i just get used to have her beside me. We share to each other everything that's happening to us, we ask each one for advice. we ran to each other for a shoulder to cry on. we are not too much alike and don't agree with some things but it doesn't matter, we accept each other for who we are. i love my best friends and i hope to keep them forever.
@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
17 Sep 10
I know what you are thinking about your best friends. I happen to me all the time, I always try my best to have good relationship with them.
I love them so much because I always beside me when I am sad or when I am happy.
They seem like one of the part of my life.
@wiwa05 (230)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
yes it's totally possible especially your sharing too much time with her... your developing your bond and feelings in something intimate, and maybe in no time you'll just realize that your feelings w/ her is not just an ordinary feeling - not a friend-like feeling... it's normal... mostly couples do start in being 'just' friends in the beginning.
think about this: 'At least you know already know what she really is if you'll both be in a realtionship someday, right? ^_^
@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
17 Sep 10
Your opinion help me have more confident, I will let it a try when I feel the right time to ask and I hope I can know what I am going to do, and what I wish I will have with this relationship.
Have a nice day!
@daniel_allen (6)
• Brazil
17 Sep 10
I have a lot of friends, but I don't think you can have a lot of true best friends. For me, a best friend is rare to find. I have one, we have been friends for like 11 years. He's like my brother, I can trust him for anything.
@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
17 Sep 10
You best friends is your brother. It's so good to you becasue you don't affair he will cheat you like some people you know.
Wish you have deeper and deeper relationship with your brother, your best friend.
Not things bad will happen betwwen both of you.
@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
17 Sep 10
I think you are right. Between best friend, there are no distance if you beleive your best friend and your friend beleive on you.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
18 Sep 10
I think your point here is about love. It's hard to understand on what your talking here. But let me guess it...
Relationship, with friend will be good if turn into love. Because you know each other better...It depend also in the situation. It's mean that when you exchanging many messages, will be turn into deep relationship (love)
@katland05 (136)
• Guam
22 Sep 10
luukimlong hi..
That is a lot of messages, I think that is closer than friends but your both afraid the other might be rejected.. If your feelings are more than friends ask her when you two are alone, ask her to go for dinner or movie night & tell her how u feel, life is too short so take a chance.. I have 2 best friends, my husband & my sister-in-law... My husband I tell my secrets, when I'm sad, happy, when I'm crying he hugs me & I'll feel better.. Love him with all my heart, we still send each other text messages when he's at work it's makes his days better & I feel wonderful when I receive them... My sister-in-law but I put her as my real sister, love her because no matter what right or wrong, she wouldn't judge me but listens to my concerns & problems when I need someone to vent my stress, & I would do the same for her... Hope things work out your way with your female best friend... Good Luck!!
@pierreshinigami (3)
•
16 Sep 10
i think of my bestfriend as a family, sometimes more than my bloodline..
@zmluckyseven (541)
• Indonesia
18 Sep 10
i think so it can become a BF/GF relationship because liking someone starts from know her attitude and dont care about what her status,etc.