How often do you like to make friendship with new people ?
By rautrahul
@rautrahul (267)
India
September 16, 2010 4:08am CST
From what I have seen it is very rare that you get friends who will together all life & thats fact none can deny. If you get good & you dont worry or beat yourself for it because there is nothing wrong with you. People keep changing all the time that is why they cant be with you forever. The more they see the world the more they change just to hide their weaknesses so that no one will take advantage of them. The more a person knows about you the more like that he/she will use you thats why people keep limited contact with most people & keep changings their friend circle. So its okay to have new friends but be careful when you choose them cause who knows who is going to stick around for you right !
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13 responses
@saranshnaik (193)
• India
16 Sep 10
in our life we meet new people everytime.actually its the part of our life.to relate with new people.and of course due to this we make new friends.some friends are formal some are informal.but closed one possible only in school days or in childhood days.i tnink they are the best friend in our life...!!
@vocalinasF (23)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
I am a very friendly person, specially when someone belongs to the same institution with mine.. But I do not give my whole trust to those persons whom I've known in a very short period of time!
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
16 Sep 10
Well I have to say that friends are suppose to be around forever, that is why they get this special title.
However, life has evolved in a way that many feel every man for himself, unfortunately. So although a handpick can be loyal overall. I have to say that caution as always be a tactic.
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@gurka84 (66)
• Argentina
17 Sep 10
I can say I'm quite special.. I give a lot of importance to the firs impression.. if the first time I dont get along its realy hard to do it later. If I have a good impresion Im really open to making friends. Apart from this I still have a solid group of friends which I play rugby with them so we are always close. But I agree that even your best friends change with time.. you get closer to some and others get a bit away.
@magnetizer89 (105)
• India
16 Sep 10
i am tottaly agree with... nowadays friends are just for the names..
the definitions are just going wrong for the friendship..
its just like the use of one another...
really its important now to be limited with everyone...,
just hoping best for ma life to hav a good friend....
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
17 Sep 10
I like to make new friends as often as possible you can never have too many friends, a new person could be very important to your life.You will always find new friends when you begin a new school, start a new activity, or move to a new place . Be open to new possibility and be ready to accept people as friends. Your life will be much richer for it.
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
17 Sep 10
I cannot say how frequently I make new friends. But, I am working for a company which is doing trading business internationally. Many business people visit us, and we visit them in their countries often too. So, I get to meet many new people and become business partners, and personal friends too. Always very interesting to work and cooperate with people of different nationalities and cultures.
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
17 Sep 10
Hi rautrahul,
I personally don't mind making new friends, however, if you are a new friend that doesn't mean that we will be best friends, just friends. I would not tell a new friend by life's history or anything that is very very personal.
New friends come and goes. If you choose to disclose your whole world to a new friend, you will be taking a chance that your life's secrets will no longer be secrets if your new friendship is dissolved and your ex-friend wants to expose your life.
It is better to nurture new relationships until you know in your heart that you can trust this people, and then again, you can never be to sure about anyone.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
For me I would be friend anytime but when I noticed that he is bad like the attitude of plastic I would not friend with her.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
16 Sep 10
yes i will like if other person also want to started friendship with me.. because it is not only depended on me also other person like or dislike.. and i always send friend request on social networking websites whom profile i like..
@SilverKing (1003)
• Canada
16 Sep 10
I like to meet new friends at work and when i am in college.Making friends is an essential skill and will help you have a more social and entertaing life.Alot of people struggle to make new friends and they often only have a few friends and thats it.I think a good way to find friends is a a place of emloyment or at college.Some say people meet in stores and at the market but a workplace is a prime place as you have more interation for a longer period of time.
@MrGold13 (12)
• Bulgaria
16 Sep 10
Friendship is something very relative. I would call someone my friend just because he calls himself like that or calls me "friend".
The best friendship is created at a very early age as often if you're friend with someone since your childhood you're friends forever.
"New" friends are most likely to be people pretending to be your friend just in order to use you... I know, it sounds bad but that's the reality
At least that's my point of view...