Does age matter ?
By tash01
@tash01 (2030)
Jamaica
9 responses
@magnetizer89 (105)
• India
16 Sep 10
age doesn't matter at all in love...
love don't see ages.. its just happens..
no one can do anything.. if love has to happens thn it will..
then no age factor will affect it..
love has no face... no age etc...
@rocket2020 (524)
• India
16 Sep 10
Hi tash, I rather be in the affirmative and I do believe that yes the age matters on both the cases for relationship and for the date as well,if it is relationship its becomes more relevant b'coz after all it is the life partner with whom we will be living our whole life, have our offspring, the old age is going to be lived together,are the few strong reason to have a matured life partner, its just the opposite for the date after all you know its the question of the urgency, the fire,the rawness the strength,the maiden approach is what is all about.
Happy mylotting.
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@rocket2020 (524)
• India
17 Sep 10
Hi newfun,Yes you are absolutely right at certain extent but again we do not fall into love to a stone or some elderly people who cannot hold me or protect me or cannot stay side by side in my life ups and down.
on the other hand what you are believing is quite possible and in the past such things had happened it is on every other book but most of the time after such love relationship the pain emerges out and been kept under the carpet,for the outsider except the two its an eye opener but the two know whats the real underline is.
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@jess07 (319)
•
17 Sep 10
Hiya,
I don't think it matters, but i do agree on the fact that i could not date a Younger man. I need to feel protected, also the important thing is maturity,and beeing on the same "wave-length". My Boyfriend is 8 years older than myself, yeat I feel so relaxed in my relationship. If two people get on perfectly well what does age matter ? If they can see themselves in the futur and agree on most things ? Age sometimes matters but sometimes it just isn't an obstacle.
Happy My Lotting =)
Jess
@iamkoz0074u (124)
• India
16 Sep 10
noooooooooooooooooooo neverrrrrrrr does not a matter because, its a feeling , an old man can love a small girl and also a old lady same as in the case of young people so i belive its a feeling.
@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
i guess this has something to do with our personality. in my case (like you) i wouldn't date someone younger than me, even if he's just a year or months younger. i have this perception that younger men won't be able to take care of me. not that it's all true but being born the eldest child, i can be too mature, opinionated and fairly responsible and i don't want younger men to be just playing around. there had been studies that say women mature earlier than men so i bet a guy who is at least 3 years older than me is of the same level of maturity as i am even if i'm a few years younger than he is.
when i was younger i used to say i only want to have relationship with men to be at most 5 years older than me. i think i ate my words. i had a boyfriend who's 16 years my senior. believe it or not, it worked well for me. even if he's way older, we were on the same level of thinking about things and i communicated with him as if he's my age. i never took his age as intimidating.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
sometimes it does, sometimes it doesnt. we just need to know the level of maturity of the person.
@mastermindskt (1050)
• Pakistan
16 Sep 10
yes age is matter very much the girl should younger then boy.and also same age but if girl is over age then boy it's make a little problem. good luck
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