To Hell With Abusive Men

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This is the story of an abused woman who happens to be my friend. She was on a marriage with an abusive husband for almost seventeen years. Though it is not in a physical way but more on emotional, mental, verbal, financial abuse. Her husband is a very paranoid jealous man. He doesn't want her to work . My friend obliged with these, so she became a full-time stay-at-home wife and mother. But, even in these situation, her husband kept on accusing her of having an affair with other men. Which he cannot even prove. My poor friend is taking care of three children and one of her children is an autistic. She did nothing with her husband accusations and continue to live with him. She believes that her husband might change one day and will stop abusing her. But, life for her becomes worse and miserable. Her husband works as a seafarer for almost a year . And he still keeps on accusing her of being unfaithful. He keeps on sending abusive text messages to her.Calling her obscene names and that he wants her dead when he came back so he can get their kids. What makes the situation even worse, is her in-laws inducement to her husband. They do this certainly because of the money they're going to get from their son. The husband refuse to give financial support to my friend and their kids. My friend now cannot work for she had an autistic child to take care of. I told her to sue her husband. But, she don't have the financial capacity to hire a lawyer. She's deteriorating fast. It's a good thing she still lives with her father. But, she doesn't want to give up her children on her psycho husband. What worries me is that her life might be in danger when her husband arrive. I don't know how to help her. It seems her psycho husband leaves her no choice. She's on the verge of having suicidal thoughts. It also seems that prayers were not enough.