I suffered alot...I won't get involved
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
September 16, 2010 5:35pm CST
so let's say you were involved in a relationship. you loved him/her alot but he/she made you suffer...and in the end you two break up. will you still be able to love again, to thrust somebody or you'll try to get revange, but revange yourself on th wrong person, or not to get involved at all?
4 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
17 Sep 10
It takes time and yet another love interest to fully get over a past love. So I would be as brave as possible and bare the situation and just to move forward.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
17 Sep 10
swiss this is a normal reaction, time will be the best healer. 
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
17 Sep 10
I did move on...I wdon';t want to see him ever again, I'm not atracted in him anymore, I don';t love him...but I can't get atached to somebody else
@msupert1 (44)
• United States
17 Sep 10
You can most definatly love again. Make sure you do not think that your new love will do the same things your old love did. It is a clean slate. If your old love cheated dont think that your new love will cheat and become a jealous person.. you could drive them away. Give them all your trust and hope that they will never break it. Good Luck.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
17 Sep 10
this kind of situation happened to me:) I loved him alot, and he also loved me..at the beginning we got along well..but after some times problems started to appear. he made me suffer. but he didn;t cheat on me. the problem is that I can;t feel noting for no person after this experience...I tried to get emotionaly involved but I can't do it anymore
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
you see, getting revenge wouldnt reverse anything bad that has happened. better just move on and wish each other goodluck on your next relationship.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
16 Sep 10
I agree with you and I wan;t talking about me :)) I don;t know why you understood that:). there are people whom once they are hurt, the also like to see others in pain, suffering..that's why I asked that question.
@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
I think i wont do that. There is no use and not worth it. I'll just move one and wait for someone that i deserve. If you are hurt and in pain, we think to get even to the person who hurt us. But its much better to accept the fact that your relationship wont work and your not meant for each other. Revenge might hurt in the end. So better if just forgive and forget. Life must go on. Goodluck!
