As a TRUE man , i decited to fight for my girl!!!!

I had been in a similar situation I was in love(I thought so at that time)with a chick but she liked someone else and was in a relationship with him and no matter how hard I tried I couldn't grab her attention towards me.One day I realized even though we were close friends ,I am nothing more than a stalker trying to force someone regardless of what she felt.So I slowly parted away from her it was difficult as first but as the days flew by I thought of her even lesser day by day and one I didn't think of her at all and that pissed me off(laughs),But eventually I met a girl in my collage and had a nice relationship and after collage I went through 2 more relationships and finally found the right one for me.Chang its just a phase in life I chose to leave her and move on with my life and my advice is that you do that too b'cause these stuff can make your brain go bonkers.

If you have really known her for that time then you should know what are the things that would win her heart. Respondent 1 is right, apologize for what you have said then just show how much you love her. DO IT in action not in words. Show her how much you care and what are things you can do JUST for her. and if her bf doesn't seem to do much as you do, she might choose you over him. :)

hi there... reading on your post, i shall say that youre really into this girl and shes lucky enough she has a friend like you who cares and loves her very much that you sacrificed your own happiness and feelings for her just to make her happy and worst to the other guy.... but too much sacrifice could also really hurt.. and itd good that you opened up to her about your feelings... the question is does she felt the same way for you too? because if she doesnt then shes not worth fighting for, and try to move on, you deserve better that her...good luck on your love search...

i see that you really love her^^ and i think we must always fight for love but she knows already you love her right?^^ and she has a bf. so if she wanted to be with you she had told you that when you told her your feelings. also think about her bf. if he knows that you said that to his gf how will he feel also? think about this. imagine you are her bf and comes a guy that wants be her bf. would you feel happy? you know if she loved you it would be ok you be with her as long as she left her bf but if she is with him is bcs she doesnt love you. she knows your feelings already and if didnt leave her bf is bcs she likes you as friend only. i know is hard to accept that you cant be with a girl you love since 5 years but if she wanted you she could be with you right? and she isnt. so maybe if you go after her you will just get hurt :( anyway if you want try ok tell her your feelings again. but if she doesnt say nothing else to you just forget about her ok? or you be the one who gets hurt :(

Damn man.You are pathetic. Why didnt you just tell her how you felt in high school. You must watch too many love stories. OK. Here is the thing. Be confident. Change your looks. Go to the gym. Try my site (goodlooksecrets.com). It has all the tips you need to build a good looking body. When you meet her again. Apologize to her. Tell her you are sorry you were such an idiot to have told her your feelings when you knew she had a bf. You sound like a geek to me and if you are, stop being a geek. Girls like a strong independent guy. Dont show her that you are desperate for her. Show her that you are cool with the fact that you like her but you are not going to be chasing her. Court another girl and parade that girl infront of her. She will start to find you more attractive. Be there when she needs your help. Be friendly with her boyfriend. Good luck!