Am I a bad lover ?

Have you tried asking your partner on what's wrong with you!? Maybe you've done something wrong which lead to break ups. Or maybe it has nothing to do with you but it has something to do with both of you. In a relationship, LOVE must be first on the list, then followed by understanding, faith, loyalty...etc.. And we must remember to give time to our partner even if how busy we are.

wow, so short the time. now its doesnt matter how long as long as you gave the best of your effort to express your love to your patner. you may not be a bad or good at least you have tried your best to save the relationship.

You would have to start off by asking the man. Although I'm not sure how helpful he would be. Just from reading what you wrote I have a general idea bc I have been where u r. You're not giving yourself enough time to get over the last guy u were with. Take time to figure out what you want and what you dont want. What you're willing to except and what you're not. One thing you said was you change...it sounds like you change to please the man you react in a way that he would like thats y I suggest you take a month or 2 for you're self. Every woman has things that she jus will not except from a mate and things she doesnt like but can tolerate take time to figure it out if you dont already know. If u do I apologize jus sounded like a similar situation. Have A Great Weekend Mylotter!!

Well...being a lover do not just include your feelings and how you perform your role as lover or boyfriend. There are other factors that could make yours girls turn their backs on you. Loving too much sometimes make our partners "unwant" being loved. Too much of something is always bad enough. You make them do their part as you do yours. You must make them feel how much you need them and much you needed them too. Oftentimes, things simply just can't work. You may be good at one point but could never see each other in another point. One of the best way to keep a relationship is to find that common end where you can make both ends meet. Goodluck!

No,I think you are not a bad lover.In china, there is a saying"Believes the fate,Believes love!"Maybe it is not the time when you harvest your love.

The only thing we an handle is to cherish what we have now, our career, dream,fiends.so you should formuate a plan for each week,and spend much time to go with your lover.

Hi abish1987, If your relationships are ending rapidly, then you need to figure out what is going wrong and fix it. Why do you think your partners are not willing to stick around for more than a month or two? You say that you are a nice person, and I believe you. However, something has to be wrong or otherwise you would find someone who is willing to stay in the relatinship with you. I am a girl who will not stick with a guy who has long fingernail or bad breath or body ordor. I am just really picky, I guess. But those are some of my pet peeves when it comes to continuing in a relationship. Others are, if my partner is too needy, wanting me with him 24/7, not allowing me to have any freedom or breathing room. I don't know and I am not saying that any of these problems relate to your relationships, but you have to figure out why they leave. One thing is for sure, if you want to find a lasting partner you cannot continue doing whatever it is that you are doing. Good Luck

Maybe it is not about your, but the girl u choose is not suitable for your.Sometime being too polite for girls means no gut or character.It is important to talk to your girlfriends and inquire what wrong in the relationship or ask some close friends.However, sometime your have nothing wrong just bad choise.MAybe next time being friends first longer first before start bf gf relationship will give better understnding.

Am I a bad lover? I suppose to fairly answer this question, I would have to ask why are the break ups occurring? Maybe take sometime before getting into a new relationship to figure out why they are not working out. Really take some time and think about why the last one and the one before did not work out. You may find some sort of pattern. Or you may find that you are dating the same consistent type of person that truly does not mesh and or connect with you on a certain level. Or just maybe you may find some thoughts in there that you perhaps as a person can change. Take the time to analyze in your mind what went wrong and how you can better improve the next relationship.

maybe is not your fault^^ maybe guys with whom you been till now just were careless and not as caring as you^^ dont blame yourself^^ anyway my advises to you is always be caring, sweet, worry with your bf, be there when he needs, be honest, trust him when you feel sad just this^^ if you care for him he wont leave you if he really loves you^^ bcs thats what love is^^ we just need care^^ if someone give us why we find someone else? just if that person is not meant for us^^ dont be sad^^ and dont think is your fault^^ soon you find the right guy for you^^

Loving usually means understanding. You should understand as much as possible the feelings/likes& dislikes of your partner to be able to sustain a true relationship. You must also understand that everybody has its pros and cons.. we must sometimes accepts certain bad habits that our partner has and so should they. If either party cannot tolerate any of our habits, it might be the main reason of a break up. Do get to know the reason of breakup and if it is something that you can correct, then try to do something about it... else, find someone else that can take you for who you are.