do.... what your family demands.....

Yes family is definitely important, but it doesn't mean that you do whatever they demand or whatsoever. It just so happened that you commit mistake in choosing a girl that you think deserve to be a family. Not doing family demands means being selfish, it's just that we have our own demand. But family and girlfriend have different roles and significance in our life. And as you said, because of this girl, you stop caring for your family but then also because of this girl you've got open your eyes and see the significance of your family as well. There's a reason for everything that happens. It's not only the importance of family that you discover, but also the experience that next time, you have to be extra careful in choosing a girl of your life. Learn to analyze if she deserve your respect and love. Now that you found your self with your family, your love will soon come to your way, just don't loose hope. Thanks and happy mylotting.

It's sad what had happened to you sinaj292, real family will always stay beside you no matter what, through your ups and downs they will never leave you, infact they will be the there even at your most lowest time. How long did it took you to recover from the pain? It's good that you allocated your precious time with you real family. Someday, you will eventually meet someone who is family-oriented who will love you dearly and your family as well.

Family is important, but you also have to think about yourself. You should try to create both balance and walking hand in hand. We can not prioritize one only, because it would be painful. I say this because i'm experienced. I am more concerned with the interests of my family, while i forget my own interest, and finally made me in an unpleasant atmosphere.

This is like people said we have to live for my family ...yes ...because without family one cant live alone...for someone you care a lot and visa verse . To take care small needs of family gives lots of happiness..if they want something and in the mean time I also required something badly then I first thought for their need.

There is nothing like happy family life in this world.As long as you are single you have to care for yourself and be your own.But it is not so after marriage when wife joins you.Now yourself is no longer one but two.Then when a child is added yourself become three ..one yourself.. two your wife and.. three your child. Now yourself which was one earlier has now become three.What you were doing for yourself ..now you have to do for three.As you did not ignore yourself which was one before marriage... .how can you ignore the other two who are also yourself.There is another secret.. that is when you start caring for others you tend to ignore your personal self.As an ancient sage rightly said.."Real happiness lies in making others happy" Think over this sentence again and again you will realize how important the other members of your family are to you..

everyone one should give importance to their families first... i have seen many cases like you... but they are not as lucky as you.. some don't get back to the track as u got.. and now they are really very sad about what they did.. now they can't get back because they have covered a long distance that they can come back.. so u r exactly rite that everyone should do as their parents said n take care of them...

It's sad that the girl who you thought would be your family hurt you and left you for someone else. I guess that is life really, we can't really get everything we want but life shows us who the real people are in our lives - our family. I just hope someday you would feel how it is like to handle your own family. But for now, your first family should be of great importance. But of course, don't forget to love yourself too.

My family doesn't have any demand.. because all family member are depend on my father.. their are 5 persons are in my family.. father,mother, brother, sister and me.. so i am student.. and not in job.. so my family never demand anything to me..

hey there! Your family will always be your family and no one could ever replace them. Having someone as a partner is another story. Loving and being with someone makes us find our personal happiness that is very exceptional. You always have to separate the one you'll spend your whole life with and the people you can never live without. In fact, see them in different point of view but always make them one. Don't let your past hinder you from loving again and finding the right girl for you. Losing her simply means that you are not meant to be...take it easy man! God Bless!