Are you controlling?

No, I am not that controlling at least. Because, if you try to control people, it might work for a little bit, but after a while, people if they really do not want to do something, they will not do something. Thus they will resent you for your attempts to control them. Thus those who have a controlling, obsessive personality, they are not going to be very popular for all that long to say the least. I know people who are controlling. They feel that everything should go there way. If it can't, then they just throw their hands in the air. They try and become the center of attention, trying to direct everyone. Yet, they should really look at what they are doing, and what they need to do. They spend a lot of time being controlling to others, but they are losing control themselves.

Hi dear, Controlling is a quality if it properly utilised. Any thing without control is ugly and we cannot enjoy it fully. If we think of anything, if it is controlled, then there is beauty. Think the other way, we will get bored with it. Having food, listen to music, talking too much, working long etc, if it goes beyond the limit, all are unfair. It creat unwanted problems. If this is the case with a univeral approach, how it will affect on peopel - We should not - in reality, we have not right to control people, unless officially authorised. If our job or work is related it, we have to, otherwise, who we are to control others?. Even towards children, we need to guide them and not to control. Do we like someone controlling us? Definitely no. So, the principle is applicable both the ways and still, we need to control, do a friendly approach and in a polished manner, so that they will not know the seriousness of the pinch. Regards, Thank-s

Controlling is natural habit of a person. We need to control our anger,expenditure,emotion and behavior. When things goes out of limit,it may cause damage to oneself and others around. It is necessary to control our habits and behavior to suit the situation and time. We need to control stress of mind and diseases before those become serious and critical. The basic aim of controlling is to guide one's action in right direction and improve the normal functioning of life. Thanks.

No, I'm really not controlling. I don't like controlling people. It's just not the type of thing that I like doing. It's not me at all.