how can you mend a broken heart?

The only way to mend a broken heart is to fall out of love.You have to completely let go. Is this easy? Hell no! But it has to happen for you to mend your heart.

I think you need some conscious effort to forget that person. Accepting is really one difficult thing to do that some people find hard to do even unconsciously, so maybe it is about time to accept that it is really over. It would also help to see some new people (not exactly date or whatever). Being with happy people might help you get your mind off things and find a new perspective about love and being with someone for real. :)

Heal of a broken heart should be loved more..heart has to be given an heal, a peace and support. To focus on a different activity, work and giving heart a time to rest itself out of all sorrows.

It is really difficult to totally dissipate love for a person you cared really deeply. The only thing that will help will be "time". I see it has been five years but unfortunately in your case you care too deeply so you still need more time. Another love interest and time usually mends a broken heart. Keep yourself and mind pre-occupied each time you drift to these thoughts

Jenny, it is really a not so good occurance. but it happens in most cases. true love, can be felt only in memories. remember, if the same is felt by Him, and chances He returns. If not, BELIEVE ME, it was onesided. the fact is bitter. of course. I pray for you. as is said, TIME WILL HEAL ! focus on other responsibilities. I say this with a view to pacify you. I know. It cant be. when the current of LOVE is high as in your case, it is not easy. we can say what ever. but it really takes time. God Bless You.

Five years is not that easy to forget. Moving on is always a choice. But the way I read your lines, you wished him back. You will get over him if you have fully convinced yourself to let him go, and be happy again with someone new.

It is really hard to end a relationship,especially if that relationship has been in your life for sometime.I do think that it takes along time to get use to not being with that person day in day out,but as the time passes it will get easier and you will find a person that you love just as much.

it is really hard , i was trying to move on my bf we "broke up" and he was really mad but i don't know if i want to do this anymore , i love him with all my heart but it hurts , i know it was my fault. Sometimes it is good move on and have a friendship with that person.

hi, breakup is really tough, but you have to believe that moving on is possible. you can start by accepting, and if there's any hurt or anguish left, try forgiving and forgetting. i think five years is long enough and now could be the time for you to find a new love interest. at the same time you should also focus on loving yourself. there's no better person to love you than yourself. i bet the breakup has reduced a lot of your self-esteem, so try your best to regain your sense of self worth. i hope these could help you to move on. God bless!

You know what, i understand how you feel.. I was once in your shoe. I have this relationship for a month and we broke up but everytime we see each other its like were still in a relationship but the sad part is I was the only one loving him. His there for me because he needed me not because he still love me. that type of relation go on for 3 years.. Until one day I woke up thinking what have I done with my life. I wanted to totally move on. but I can't I', still attached with him. Its like I can't live my life without him. my friends keep on telling me to move out. to find someone new. How can I find it if its him i wanted in my life? I did everything just to win him back but still he didn't. I made my self occupied with a lot of things. I work and work and work. I hang out with my friends, i read a book just to stop my mind from thinking of him. and I successfully did it. Now I'm happy with my boyfriend now. If i keep my self be in his shadow, i wouldn't feel this happiness now. If you really want to move out, be strong in your decision.. its still you who will suffer in the end. give chance to your self. I know you can do it. In the right time, you will find the person who really meant for you...

healing a broken heart is difficult but you have to do it bcoz it will help you grow as a person and it will help you find the true person really meant for you.

Heart broken once is broken for all times, it is like glass, if one joins a mirror using glue, he/she can see image in it, but it will appear broken.. better to forget, time is the best healer though. thanks for sharing.. kalyani

Hello jenny Breaking up with someone you love is really painful. Life is like that!. Let time heals your broken heart. Think positive and believe that God has someone special for you. Be occupied, don't try to listen romantic or loves songs, make new friends and try to move on. I guess I'm also saying this to myself. lol.:) I'm also in the process of mending my broken heart..:) Together we can do it..! Have a great day ^_^

Wow I am just like you. I too slow at moving on :-(