Who is that special one?

@eshaan (6188)
India
September 18, 2010 1:28pm CST
Its about 18th September midnight today in India and tomorrow (its only few minutes for 12.00 am) is the b'day of my special friend...who taught me about happiness and sorrows, the ways to handle situations in life and also what is right and what is wrong...I don't forget to wish him his b'day whether online, offline, my messaging on mobile or maybe a mail or anything possible..do u have such person in your life... whom you feel proud to wish and want to be the first one to wish...tell me if at all you want to share...
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@flauee (92)
19 Sep 10
its the 20th of september now here in the philippines (12:40 am) yes! i have a special some who would be celebrating his birthday 4 days from now.. he is the very first person who loved me, who held me, and there will always and forever be a place in his heart for me, and from the first breath i breathe , when i first smile at him. he knows a love of a father runs deep. i am so proud of my father.. he had loved us with all his might, shelter us from rain and provided us with our needs and even our wants... i really wished he is still with us physically.. but i know he is happier with our creator.. and looking over at us.. i miss my father... and i love him yesterday, today, tomorrow, and forever... till we meet again.... advance happy birthday pang....
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
19 Sep 10
hmmm..i understand your love for your father....i too miss my father...i know that there is no love like parents....
@flauee (92)
19 Sep 10
i totally agree 101%... ^_^
• India
19 Sep 10
Hello my friend eshaan Ji, Well, in case if I have to wish anyone, then why not first. I am very happy that you think about your friend. Now, I wish to give following few thoughts, if practiced even one, one will always be happy and ready to face any situation in one's life. :- [b]"SATSANG (a) ”If you can balance /stable your mind, when people around you are in un-balanced , and at the same time blaming you”. (NO-reaction) (b) “If you have belief on yourself, when others have doubt and at the same time, you strongly oppose their belief of their doubt” (c) “If you can wait for Good/Bright days without loosing patience/getting disheartened of waiting”. (d) “Everyone around you is deceiving you , whereas you are not in any way.” (e) “ Every body hates you and you do not, at the same time, you ARE not proud to be ‘good’ and ‘wise’. (f) “ If you Can dream, but do not allow them to overpower you, and you Can ‘think’ but at the same time, do not plunge into dreams of ‘thinking”. (g) “If you can welcome ‘gains’ and ‘defeat’ OR ‘profit’ & ‘loss’ with open hearts and they do not unbalance your mind”. (h) “If you can accept your own words in twisted/mutilated /distorted form, happily by ‘fools’ and they do not involve you in their bad plans”. (i)“ If you Can bear/tolerate the ‘gains’ accomplished by you ‘raise to ashes’ , for which you took whole life to build, and at the same time you can once again order your tired hands to restart making”. (J) “ If you can take one chance to reduce your gains in your life, ‘loose’ or ‘gain’ (like a great gambler) (k)“If you can, after loosing every bit in your life, get ready fresh to obtain the same with total energy from all corners of your body and mind, without uttering a single word even”. (l)“ If you Can compel your heart, mind and limbs, when they are so tired and refuse to accept any thing, except that your ‘belief’ and ‘desire’ to order them that they have to march forward and not falling back”. (m) “ If you can roam in crowds, but do not allow your ‘thoughts’ and ’abilities’ to wander stray, and you live with emperor, but do not neglect common man “. (n) “ If you are unharmed by people loving you and people hating you”. (o)“ If you Can respect everybody within the limits, but at the same time nobody”. (p)“ IF YOU CAN REMEMBER THE UN-EXCUSED MOMENT/SECOND (time) OF YOUR LIFE, AND EXPLAIN THE REASON FOR THE SAME”. Then, the whole world belongs to you only and every thing that exists on this, at the same time you fall under the category of ‘ACTUAL HUMAN BEING ’, which is greatest achievement in the life than any thing else”.[/b] Take care. May God bless You and have a great time.
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
19 Sep 10
thanks my dear friend i am happy that u have placed this quote for me....life is very difficult and we all need to be reminded such things again and again...i have also read 'Geeta' which was suggested by this friend...and am happy that i have controlled myself and my mind to a great extent
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• India
21 Sep 10
Hello my friend eshaan Ji, So nice of for your positive comments. Even after reading manytimes, I still need to understand GEETA. If you want such things, I have lot many inmy armoury. It goes with saying taht practice make Men perfect. So keep practicing. Enjoy myLotting. By the way 'eshaan' is a charcter in one of our hindi serial relayed on STAR-PLUS daily at 1930 hrs, curious to know if you have adopted this userID from there. May God bless You and have a great time.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Sep 10
hi eshaan here today Sept 19 at 9 am, I also have a special' somneone who is my best friend.She has always been there for me through thick and thin and never has wavered, I owe her ao much and will be one of the first to wish her a Happy Birthday.We even both have birthdays in November, and ou r sons are also best friends too. She is my anchor here as she emails me each work day.
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
19 Sep 10
well enjoy the day and make her as much happy as u can
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
19 Sep 10
You’re very fortunate to have such a person in your life. My husband, my daughter and my sister are the three people in my life who I would want to be the first to send good wishes to. There are many other special people who are part of my life but those three are the ones I am closest to and they mean the world to me. I am grateful for them every day!
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
19 Sep 10
thanx...i am really lucky to have such friend..and yes my family members too are same to me as you...i am the one who remembers dates most
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
21 Sep 10
There are actually two people in this world that are the ones that I always want to be the first to wish happy birthday to. Those two special people in my life are my daughter whose birthday is on December 4 and the second special person is my son whose birthday is October 13. The reason that they are the people that are the most important to me is because of the fact that I'm the one that brought them into the world. They are so very special to me.
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
22 Sep 10
yes..i agree dear dorannmwin ... the person in my discussion is not the only one whom i want to wish first of all...but as it was the date of his b'day....i mentoined it... my other special dates are daughter 12th november and son...25th december..
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
19 Sep 10
Hi Eshaan!. I got best friend from high school we still making a good friend until today. I think they know me more than others because I am not open person, so its hard to share my taught sometimes but with them its so easy to tell every thing. a birthday always special moment to us because I can tell them how special they are to me even sometimes I forget too because I am to busy. Because they my close friend I will ashamed said happy belated birthday because they know how my life is, but for the next time I will try not to forget about it.
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
19 Sep 10
try not to forget especially those special ones...its very hard to get nice people in life and once you get them...don't lose them .....preserve them in hearts like precious jewels
@nishdan01 (3051)
• Singapore
19 Sep 10
I wish to all my close family members. I wish my husband first for his bithdays and now my kids are also important. I plan what to make for them, but I wish my brother and parents too. I have few friends and I wish them on their birthday.
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
19 Sep 10
yes...we all do it...but some are so much special...that we wait to be first to wish
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
21 Sep 10
I don't think I have anybody like that except for my kids. They are still very excited about their birthdays, and that sometimes they get restless the day before. So, I make it a point that I am the first one to greet them. Hopefully when they grow up, they remember these efforts of mine. And share this experience with their own kids.
@eshaan (6188)
• India
21 Sep 10
kids get moulded as u mould them and surely your love will be reflected in their future life...when they will also show such love to their children...i know you will also shower your love to your grand children
@leo2050 (348)
• India
18 Sep 10
hey eshaan enjoy with your dearest one. Just have a blast.... And yes i do have such a person in my life. Its my best friend. She is very far from me but i talk with her daily and i really miss her. We both celebrate our birthdays together.
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
19 Sep 10
yes...this friend of mine is also far away from me...but some people make the difference in your life...and become so much important that distance becomes unimportant ...we feel them very very close to our hearts