ur best friend and ur lover cheat on u, would u forgive them if they say sorry?
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
September 18, 2010 8:12pm CST
hi guys^^ if your best friend and your lover cheated on you and said sorry to you would you forgive them? about me i would be angry. i would need time to forgive them. and even if forgave things would never be the same. what about you guys?^^ please share^^ 
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@yeyelee (370)
• China
19 Sep 10
Version one:be very angry and hit them heavily.
Version two:be very angry but not express it,and then spread rumors to their friends and relatives.
Version three:turn around and hate them,never forgive them.
Version four:turn around and bless them.Good luck for them.
^^Haha,if this happened to me,i would choose version four.I was a good-tempered person,if they love each other,good luck.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Sep 10
aww ahah thanks so muchy for give all versions ahah^^ anyway about me i would choose version number ahah not any version^^ mine would be version five: say bye to them and try to forgive them with time. i couldnt talk with them ever again. but i would forgive bcs they said sorry. but couldnt be their friend. i wouldnt be fake always thinking they were so bad and smile to them^^ anyway wish it doesnt happen to us right?^^ ahah^^
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@Chispa514 (871)
• Montreal, Quebec
19 Sep 10
I really doubt that I would be able to forgive my best friend. If my "lover" cheated, well...that's not good but I can get past it because everyone makes mistakes, BUT....my best friend should know better than to sleep with the person I am involved with.
If my best friend were to sleep with my "lover", that would hurt alot, because there is just that unwritten rule among best friends that you don't sleep with your best friend's significant other, no matter what the circumstances are !
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Sep 10
aw i see^^ so you forgive your lover but your friend you dont? well i wouldnt forgive both of them. bcs also lover knows how much you love him and wasnt honest with you. about me i would be angry with both and would be hard forgive what they did. is two bad things at the same time. anyway thanks for your answer^^ have a happy day and wish it never happens to you^^
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@snowy22315 (182200)
• United States
19 Sep 10
I don;t know. It would depend on the reasons, but I would not be inclined to, because there are many people that would never consider cheating. If a person resorts to that there is something seriously wrong with the relationship and maybe it shouldn't be fixed.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Sep 10
well you are right^^ things should be fixed^^ i meant your bf and your best friend were together in your back and said sorry to you. i guess wouldnt be easy to forgive this situation^^ about me i couldnt forgive them right away. i needed to be away from them and just with time could forgive. for sure i wouldnt forgive just like that. i wouldnt do that to my friend ever.
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@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
19 Sep 10
My parents taught me to forgive whatever mistakes people do to me, no matter small or big they are.
Yes, I will forgive them for sure. But as a human, disappointment is also unavoidable. So, it requires time if I am asked to clean up the mess inside my heart. But in general, I should, no but I must forgive them.
Because I believe, God will forgive me when I forgive someone.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
19 Sep 10
I really dont know what i would do...As i always believe in forgiveness. I will definately forgive both of them....but i dont know how will react at that moment. But i know that time is the beat healer.
@leogeljauculan73 (25)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
for me, i will forgive them but off course i need to break up with my lover and find another one. it is simply like that.. y should i settled for someone who cheated me once. Once your lover has cheated you once she/he may do it again, it will then go over and over again
