what will u do if met a very good man and love him but suddenly disappear?
By xenachinah30
@xenachinah30 (597)
Philippines
September 19, 2010 2:08am CST
what will u do if u met a man from the internet that u see and talk with him everyday for six months helps you support your kids who have very good intentions for you..who is planning to come to your country and settle down because he want to be with you for the rest of his life but then suddenly he disaapear and never talk to you again?would you think he found another girl or something bad happened to him?
5 responses
@jade14 (28)
• China
22 Sep 10
maybe he is caught up with so many things that he forgot to contact you or maybe and who knows one day he will come back and surprise you who knows the best you can do is just go on with your life and cherish the memories that you had and maybe one day if you really are meant for each other then he will come back and finally everything will work out just fine
@xenachinah30 (597)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
oh how i wish my friend but we learn lessons in life from our experiences in life and love and for that i can say to cherish the times you were together and thank him by heart for the love or attention he or she gave to you.move on with life without regrets and pain in our hearts and face today and tomorrow with grace and confidence.the biggest lesson we can learn in life is acceptance and patience.
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
19 Sep 10
Well Well. I'm kind of a funny person. If someone disappears on me, I seek them out to ask WHAT HAPPENED??? Sure you might not like the answers but it leaves no doubt. If you are to break up a relationship, it's cold to just disappear. People owe each other more than that.
@xenachinah30 (597)
• Philippines
20 Sep 10
well yeah..exactly..it leaves me many questions in mind if he intentionally did that or something really bad happened to him.i just prayed to the lord wherever he is right now that he will be happy in his decisions in life.and thanked him for months he had been a father to my kids and the love he gave to us.
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
I think I would like to be positive on this one...I'd like to think that he must have left me for a very good, very valid reason.... And no I might never be able to find out, and the possibility of him meeting an accident is very possible.... But if I were in the girl's position, I would've asked for us meet earlier even before the relationship got deeper...and I could've asked him to let me meet his family or closest friends, so if anything bad happens, I would be informed right away.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
19 Sep 10
I normally would not like to think bad about people I don't know, but I think what you got here is a case of getting 'too-close'. Maybe everything was OK because there was still that big distance separating you. Now that maybe going to the next step is what is necessary, he couldn't afford it anymore.
I hope I'm wrong. And I hope that you get over him, if he indeed doesn't make the contact anymore.
Goodluck!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
ouch!!!!if that happens, wait for a few more days, maybe something just came up. but if after a week or two and he ahs not made any effort to relay any message, then just think of him as somebody that has made you happy in a short span of time. things do happen for a reason.
@xenachinah30 (597)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
its been more than 2 months since we lost communication or better say since the last time we have talked.whatever the reason will be i am glad that once in my life i have met him and he made me happy and my kids but the problem is my kids are asking of him why he never talked to us anymore?so thats what really matters now