Will you keep loving a person who does not respond your love enough?

One should never beg for love, sweetie. That is degrading. You cannot love someone who doesn't respond to that love. A waste of time, if you ask me. Unfortunately this happens to a lot of people and i know that hurts like hell. It can make you feel like an idiot, though. TATA.

No, I won't. You must get same frequency of love in order to keep your relationship alive.

If you are asking would i love someone who is not showing me love in return, I would have to say no. relationships don't work if only one person is putting forth the effort. only if one person is giving love. you need to people to put in the work that it takes to make a relationship something really special.

Although it is always ideal to have love reciprocated, I find that just because a person hurts does not mean you stop loving them However I am one that can over power my desire to not be reciprocated and force myself to end the relationship. As I feel we must love ourselves first before we can expect for others to love us back. A person who persist wanting to love someone when it is clearly stated they do not love you, this is clearly a sure sign that the person does not love them self.

Well I think love depends on the person. But personally, I would think that love should always be a give and take process.. Because if only one person loves more than the other, then I think it won't work out that well for them. besides, how can you say you are happy with something when you know deep inside that you are not loved back?? Loving isn't always about the heart at all.. Our mind is higher than where our heart is, and so we should always take into consideration that we don't have to give and give love to someone who can't do the same for us.. But few still would hope that someday that person will learn to love them as much as they do to them, but it depends to the person already. As you said, people are different. People don't always have the same perspectives as the others..

in my opinion if i loving a person that not respond to me i will stop to love him because what am i waiting for? waiting for a love from him that wont never come? it is to wasting time so just talk to her/him if you love em but if they dont love you try to accept that because love cant be forced

Definitely, I'm not the kind of person to be crazy about a guy. It may be true that I love him, but I will stop loving him immediately if he does not return my love. For me, love is equal to both sides. The person who loves someone is supposed to be loved. If he/she does not respond to your affection, then what's the sense of loving that person? We can't just sacrifice ourselves to love someone. That's kind of foolish. It's better to look for someone whom you love and who will love too.

vijayanths yes we are all different. but yes I would keep loving a person who may not respond my love enough because I knew that he really did love me but he was not the mushy type. So many people equate flowers and candy and gifts galore with the person who loves you madly but yet another man shows his love the most by b eing there for you always, on sensing when you are upset and tired, by going clear ouf to his way to get you something you need. Love cannot be measured by ounces and pounds, love comesin many ways, ant the one who does not seem to love you as much as some other man may just be showing a deeper love by being really caring, and really helpful and concerned all the time. He does not love you out loud professing to all how much, but he will show it in a dozen different ways. No if you have to beg for love, then that love is very unhealthy mentally and emotionally.

why should one love someone who does not love him or her in return? one should learn to let go. there are others that wait for love to happen.

Great question first of all. I have been with the man of my life for six years now and we have been married three years. In all the time I have been with my love there has never been anyone else. We love each other, depend on each other and are each others best friends. We show a lot of affection towards each other both in public and in private. We say I love you in public and for the most part we hold hands. Ocassionally we will kiss in public, but not too often because we do not want to offend anyone. I think that love should never be begged. If two people love each other then they should marry. I feel that it is wrong to marry in fear of dying alone or getting married because of the children. I know of a couple who has been married for 35 years and the two of them never do anything together or spend time with each other. I do not know how two married people could lead such seperate lives. My husband and I do a lot of things together. We both clean house, share the cooking and the yard work. We also go grocery shopping together, bowl together, attend concerts (mostly Country), but yet we do seperately as well. He likes to look up songs on LImewire and I have my crafts.

Many people think that love must be a two way process...They love you and in the same way you love them back... But the one thing that we must always remember that love must be unconditional...it doesn't matter if they love you back...but what matters most is how you love them...true love does not look for rewards of what they do...but instead, they love even the worst part of that loving relationship, without expecting anything in return...that's true love... "Love is patient. Love is kind...it is long suffering..."

Yes what you said is correct that we feel bad when our love is not reciprocated.As you have pointed some are mad in love whether the other person returns it or not. I feel that such persons are crazy about other persons personal appearance or some achievements or traits.Better to recede when the other person does nor reciprocate . But such situation we cannot foresee. It is said that you should marry a girl who loves you and not the girl whom you love. Frankly telling we had no such choice as ours was an arrange marriage and we see no problem...

I will never keep loving a person (in a romantic way) who does not respond to my love equally or more. It's better to be loved equally because you can meet halfway on things and you treat each other fairly.

yeah u are rite.. it should not be begged for.. but wat to do.. we cant forget the 1st love..even they dont give response... but apart frm them if sumbody really loves u then i wud think we should accept it.. because love them who loves u...

I thought I loved my ex but it wasn't Real love. When he disappeared I was heartbroken but it took some heart to heart talks with my close friend and a week to get over him. Looking back it was just attraction. I thought it was love and was willing to love him but as soon as I saw what it Really was, I got over it quickly. Now I'm with a guy who loves me. He " responds to my love with interest." I know I will keep loving him for the rest of my life.Even if he said goodbye today, i would still go on loving him.

they say love is blind. i can love them even they don't love me as long as they don't hurt me physically and emotionally. but once they did it to me, my love will vanish just like air

Hi, Vijay.:) I absolutely agree with you that love should never be begged, It must be given freely whole heartedly.:) But, dear, this is just what the mind says. The heart sings a different tune when it starts falling in love.:)Sadly, but this is the truth.... How can we ever say or dictate our heart not to love that person because he/she is adamant of your need to be loved back? Remember, that the heart knows no reasons when it is in love.... However, the heart may or may never get tired of loving that person. Who are we to know, dear? I, myself, can not exactly answer that. My mind wants to give you the very logical answer but my heart is opposing it. Sigh... Sometimes, it takes a lot of will power to not to let the heart fall for someone who isn't for us to love.... A word of caution, LOVE ALWAYS LOOK AT THE BRIGHTER SIDE OF THE WORLD, so it is always a hopeful spirit that one day it will prevail despite of the odds and pains...:) La la love to you, Vijay.:)

Vijayanths - you are going to hate me for what I am going to write, but I will write it anyway. (Its your fault - you start discussions like this) Generally, youngsters - who have just crossed the thresholds of their childhood and are not yet shouldering the responsibilities of adulthood (earning for family), have their minds vacant - without stress. At such times, some movies, songs, poems, books, blah blah fill up that vaccuum. If they are unfortunate enough to meet a person whom they start liking, that person starts replacing that vaccuum. If the entire vaccum is filled, and then this person whom they like does not reciprocate, chances are the youngster will go insane unless there is some reasonable replacement coming up. Now coming to your question - will there be respons - lifetime? I'd say impossible. I bet even Devdas had wet dreams about Chandramukhi. So why do some people hang on to love of their lifetime? I dont think they are insane. They are just not getting it. They are letting their ego interfere with the truth. They still hope somehow things would correct themselves. They are also not being honest with themselves. Just imagine - a person ditches me and goes to another woman, making me a laughing stock, would I really want him or her back - for anything other than revenge - if at all? So either this person is absolutely in love with the idea of eternal love and would have done everything within his or her powers to sabotage own love life for that tragic image, or is too egoistic, and hopes to get back the love only for getting even. I personally dont believe human beings are that charitable. :) Too cynical for you? Sorry!!!!

same as you think, for those who does not respond to your love does not deserve your love at all. For my situation, i am losing hope for my girlfriend because she doesnt respond anything. I am just an ordinary guy for her. I would not like to have same relationship like i had before

I'm in a relationship where my girlfriend doesn't show much response to my love for her. She's currently living overseas and is loyal to me. But the problem is her interests are seeming more important than our relationship. She would go home here only for her interest and not for me. She would chat with people in the community she's interested in. We rarely have time for ourselves. Whenever I try talking to her she listens but she goes on with what she does. I know if I leave her she'll be sad. But she really doesn't respond enough. I don't know why I'm going on with this relationship. But I still am. Hopefully things improve in the future.