money=love?
By lichengxi
@lichengxi (49)
China
5 responses
@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
to other people, yes that is right.
i've seen many who gives too much importance on money and material things and when they find someone who can give them what they want, then they fall in love to that person, that is money=love.
but personally i dont agree with it.
i know money is important, you need it to buy food, clothes, house rent, bills, study, etc etc... but it is in no way as equal as love to me.
i can love someone who doesnt have much as long as i am loved in return... im more happy if i fee loved not by giving me money or material things, but by showing me how much i am loved.
your question depends on the person.. how he/she value money over love.
my answer is it is NOT right.
@keval32 (1096)
• India
19 Sep 10
You're right, it is depended on the person. But thinking on the right way, money=love it is not true, you can have many examples of people who do not have much money but they live with the peace and love. I think Love-Money=Pure Love. What you say?
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@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
i still dont agree with it -- Love-Money=Pure Love...
if it is pure love, even if one doesnt have money, love will still be in it. even if circumstances makes on a person who fall in love lives in poverty, that is pure love to me. no "money" conditions. as long as they are together even if they are poor, they still love each other - this is pure love.
I can say that it is pure love if there is no money involve with that relationship.
@iamdee (158)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
I beg to disagree with your friend. Maybe your friend was referring to a superficial and conditional love. I believe that true love can never be bought nor sold with money. True and unconditional love accepts a person's limitations, weaknesses and imperfections. If a person says I love you because you always fulfill my material and financial needs, then that is not love but rather an act of taking-advantage of the other. It's like I will love you as long as I get good benefits from you but once you run out of resources, my love will fade too. Love should never be equated to money.
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
Well for me its not right although other people valued this kind of relationship. As for me its not true love, what if you have money and in the long run you lost your money what will happen? The relationship will just end because there is no money involved. I guess if your looking for love, money should not be center i mean it should not matters as long as love is there its more important than anything else.
@thebest1 (658)
• Romania
19 Sep 10
hello,dear and welcome in myLot comunity!
If you think that money means love,you're wrong.More marriage are destroied for money.If someone like money more than people,that...is sick!If your husband or wife has more money,but he don't talk with you,or don't care about you...can you like him?I don't know...I think I can't do it,even he has all money from this world!
