Have you experienced being used by someone???

@joddie (173)
Philippines
September 19, 2010 11:18am CST
Will somebody give me some idea as to how to determine if your being used or not. I'm just curious on the idea and just want to have some insights.
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@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
I felt it once in my previous relationship. He was terminated from our work. And he came to me and tell me what happen. Which is fine because we have a relationship. So, i do my best to help him, since i love him and he's no one to turn to. But as time goes by and when he got his job again. I felt neglected and i got the feeling that he is not interested and love me anymore. He seldom see me and call me. He's not visiting me to my apartment like he did. He always said that we are just busy with our work that's why we are not hanging out like we used to.
@joddie (173)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
There are people like that. Sometimes we regreted that our paths have cross.
• Hong Kong
22 Sep 10
Yes, I sometimes have the that feeling.. You trust a person and help him do something and finally you discover that you are being used.
@joddie (173)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
I felt hurt when i feel that i am only being used. Life is like that. Maybe we are being used because we let them to it to us. Sometimes life is so unfair.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
8 Nov 10
I think we can all relate to being used by someone in some way in our lives. it isn't a pleasant feeling to experience. it makes you feel less about yourself because you were able to be used by someone so easily. it can be a hard feeling to get over.
21 Sep 10
yes i am,he use me just to help him to allyby for the sake of him ti protect him for other to stop bothering him.not all lie is bad sometimes it is good to use just like i did for him for him sake.its good feeling after that,but tink first of situation b4 you act its always depend on the situation and its up to you how you can do that.just always tink the good.
@joddie (173)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
There are times in our life that situation happens. If that's what happened, i'll just try to forget and move on and be aware the next time around.
• Philippines
20 Sep 10
hi joddie! i dont know what you're pointing out when you've been used by someone. when it comes to friendship, you give your all because that is the true meaning of friendship. if you felt you were just being used, then its not your lost. you have shared your real you and you have knew that they are untrue. :)
@joddie (173)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
It could be friends or someone special. I agree with you. I do it for them because that's me.