She fall in-love so fast..

Hi there yomy, Please do not feel bad about me saying that your friend looks like she really is an 'easy girl' because how can that happen, that she just met your boss' friend and then they are already on. I wouldn't wonder if you knew from the guy that something already happened between them.. try to advice your friend about her situation. I think it would be good for her that you tell her the main impression her current boyfriend has on her maybe then she will realize that she isn't in the right track. After all, if she has faith in you she wouldn't even doubt about you. It wouldn't be right if she'll doubt on what you have to say to her and if she believes the new acquaintance. If that happens then it's up to her already. It isn't your problem if she doesn't want to realize what mistake she is doing to herself..

I think your friend is not mature yet when it comes to love. Because falling in-love so fast is a childish act. Can i ask? How young is your friend? Having new bf so fast is not a good move. Your friend is easy-to-get, I guess.

hello yomy1984! i understand your feelings, it is natural to feel bad when someone tells you that your close friend is easy and so on and so forth. Saying yes to the new guy while she's still with her boyfriend is not good but considering her experience with the guy, you said yourself that you don't like the way he is treating her, it is understandable that she hooked with someone that easily whom she finds attractive and perhaps could replace her boyfriend that easily. If we judge her actions based on Philippine culture regarding women's attitude and character , we could readily say that she's easy and bad. However, if we really look on it based on today's trend and culture, why would a girl who is attracted and may have fallen in love at first sight postpone of having a new one when he's there for the taking? i mean, what if she got hold of herself that day and then who's to know if she will ever see the man again? or if he will be available still come next time they'll meet? i think with her past experience, she is afraid to lose the new guy and that's why she grabbed him, right then and there. The only sad thing about it is that the new guy didn't appreciate what happened and seems to brandishing his quest of the so-called "easy girl".

hi there, well i think your friend is a little bit confuse on what she wants in live, yes she has a boyfriend for 2 years but it turns out to be that there relationship is not healthy, then here comes a guy whom she just met and makes her happy for a short time and ended up losing her 2 years relationship. it would also be better that you as a friend and a dear sister to her to let her know what her new boyfriend told to your boss so that she would also be aware, and who knows she might pause for a while spent time by her self and think on her situation right now and what she wants in her life, if shes happy with her relationship now...

That was indeed wrong, but then I guess she was just waiting for someone to pass by to cling on to and break up with her SO LOVING boyfriend. Maybe she didn't wanna break up because she's afraid that there's no replacement, but I feel bad for her for being that easy if she really is. You will need to talk to her seriously, and explain things to her and what that new guy said so no one ends up hurt again.

hi yomy1984. i guess, it is unfair that your friend(girl)'s new found boyfriend telling your boss that she's easy. eventhough, they'd met for how many hours and talked about their lives, it is still unfair for her. yes, she had a newly boyfriend for less than 1 day, but who's to be judged if she truly had fell inlove. and she deserve to be happy after the heartaches and tears she had. :)

She may be co-dependent and need some help. Sounds like she is asking for trouble jumping to another boyfriend so quickly. Normally a person needs some time to get a grip again and then go find another boyfriend. She is running up against a wall and it may just take some time to get her barings. I hope she does. A woman doesn't always have to have a boyfriend. Broken hearts all that comes from that.

Hello yomy, seriously, i hope i won't meet this kind of girl. promised, i would be devastated if such girl replaced me that fast with another guy after ALL the good things that i did in the past. but if such scenario does happen, promise, i would rather have friends my entire life than spend with some one i think who's going to leave me someday. relationships are hard to maintain and all of a sudden this happened. that's no way

Hi yomy1984, If you friend finally broke up with her boyfriend of two years, but only after she found someone to replace him, she didn't love him as much as she said she did. I think she was just afraid to be alone. She seems to have low self-esteem. That is, she doesn't believe that she can be alone and taking care of herself. She is probably not in love with the new guy. How can she be, when she just met him and in one day or night she is in love? The relationship didn't not have time to really "get off the ground" before she quit the old boyfriend. What must the new guy be thinking? Your friend needs to grow up, and take her time in finding a real relationship that she will be happy in, and find a guy that will respect her in their long-term relationship.

That has nothing to do with having boyfriends. I think your friend is extra sociable and her values are not the same as ours. She see relationship in her own special way. I will not prejudge her. It is her life to live.

That's bad. but can you blame her for doing that? She's always hurt right? Maybe there's something with the guy he met right? You cannot blame her.

Wow.... a story of love a first sight.. Anyway, i don't think such relationship is good.. anyway, good thing is she got rid of the guy who made her cry often.

I suppose its hard to not love somebody anymore when you know you shouldnt. ITs most likely just the time that they have spent together that she dont want to believe whats happening. Or on the other hand shes scared to leave him.