A Friend sometimes is the Great Impostor....
By anaisaac21
@anaisaac21 (16)
Philippines
September 19, 2010 11:00pm CST
We often times being deceived by looks and how people react on what we say and feel, we carelessly look on the realty of the people we speak with. The people around us are the one who makes us worse.. we may not know but we do relly our self on people around us, we sometimes forget who we are.
I believe that you would agree that sometimes we think what would people say to us and expect to feel great if what we expects comes from them..would you agree if sometimes you dont try to say something that would offend a friend. I am guilty of it sometimes and feel sorry if things go wrong..
4 responses
@floranabolilan (80)
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24 Sep 10
Sometimes someones pretend to be a good friend to you. They always called you, "Friend", "Oh my dear Friend", seems that they care for you but they doesn't. Nowadays its hard to find a true friend, but there's someone waiting for us. Unknowingly He is knocking in our heart, but we ignore Him. We keep on searching to find a best friend. Yes! We found one but it doesn't fill what's the emptiness in our hearts. The only that can fill the emptiness in our heart is Jesus. People might disappoint us, hurt us, fail us but God doesn't. He never fails us cause God never fails. He is a perfect God ever!!!!!
@lhinggarcia (33)
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
If that person is an impostor, then i do not consider and categorized him or her as 'friend'. A friend is someone you can rely on, someone you can depend on, the one you can trust on and tell your concerns and secrets. But it is so sad that many times we find such kind of people and even treat as our own friends and it is too late to know they are not the real one.We are not perfect. we sometimes commit mistakes. The bottomline is that we can forgive. For me, if we really know them in the very first moment of 'friendly relationship' and we see that they have that so called 'impostor behavior', then why still go with such person have still have a friendship with him or her? Friendship for me is also a divine connection. Stay connected with those friends and stay out from those impostors!
@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
20 Sep 10
Friends , the real ones will stick with us no matter how lousy we sometimes can be. I believe that it is best to choose our friends wisely, to keep a few ones that are really worth it. True friends should never be impersonators. They should be always true to what they feel towards their friends. True friendship should not be done with lies. We should remain true to the people we consider friends if we want them to be true to us too.
@devijay78 (1573)
• India
20 Sep 10
Yes. That happens all the time. I know what you are talking about. And dont we do the same to others? I often dont want to offend my friends and end up feeling guilty when everything goes wrong. And others never ever tell me what they truly feel. Had they done that, they would have spared me a lot of heartache many a times. Nowadays I try to voice my opinion but in a nicer way and leave it to them to decide.
