Share my right now feeling?Do you do something better when someone "defy" you?
@luukimlong2000 (658)
Vietnam
September 20, 2010 12:27am CST
I got an nightmare yesterday.
I argue with my undie aunt, she is a really really bad person.
I think I have a great personality, I never want to argue with someone, especially my family members; but I did it yesterday. I felt very dispointed now, I don't want to do everything.
I argue with her not because myself, but because my younger cousin.
At first, she play with my cousin, but my cousin don't like her, so he say:"don't joke me like that, I don't like."; however, she didn't listen to him, she joke him like that again and again, and my cousin argued with her. After that, she became crazy, she beat my cousin many times. In this time, I argued with her, I really hate the things so do, and she argued with me.
She said somethings really bad and it seems like she "defy" me. After that, I feel very dispointed about myself. My really want to success because I don't like anyone "defy" me, and think me useless.
Do you think I did the right things, share your opinion?
Really happy because your sharing.
My friends.
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10 responses
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
Isn't proper to say trouble or bad day not nightmare. Because as I read your article is an arguments between you and your aunt.
I can't get you at some point, my friend. But I think not proper to have an argument with the members of your family.
In some cases, we do not avoid to experience like due to the fact that. We are suffocating in some point because some of our family members make us bad time...
Do not be disappointed, my friend. That is a part of life...the bad thing is that they support instead but they put you disappointment.
Have a great day!
@JudgeIronFist (2470)
• Singapore
20 Sep 10
When they defy you or put you down, show them all the more how you can fight them back. Your aunt is a hypocrite and there's no need to upset yourself over such a person. Some people are like that. When other people don't like certain things to be done to themselves, the more the other party will want to do it.
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@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
20 Sep 10
Well, when some defies me, I tend to want to show them that I really can, but it just takes me a long time to do it. I don't like it when people tell me that "I can't" because it will just make me want to do it that much more. I want to show people what I can really do.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
20 Sep 10
I can relate to the fact that if someone does defy you it can make you more and more determined to do better! I feel that way too if another person has put me down in some way. Your aunt does not sound like a very nice person and I don’t blame you for interfering if she was been violent with your cousin, I would have done the same thing! Don’t believe anyone who tells you that you are useless, she is the useless one!
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
20 Sep 10
That sounds like a nasty aunt to me, sweetie.
Just make sure she doesn't ruin your day.
If she say something bad to you, just ignore her, okay.
She started it, so it's not your fault.
Don't let anyone tell you that you are useless.
It is normally people who are useless themselves that say that to others.
Just ignore her.
TATA.
@jackiechan999 (1)
• Vietnam
20 Sep 10
Yeah, I agree with you that, you are right.
You will feel better, enjoy your self like what you really want.
My friend. have nice day.
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@sender621 (14890)
• United States
20 Sep 10
I think all it takes is for someone to tell you that you can't do something that makes you want to do it more. Nobody likes to hear that they can't do something. You just want to prove the world wrong when someone says you can't.
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
21 Sep 10
Being an elder, she is really not setting a good example for the young. However, since she is your relative, you can't avoid meeting her from time to time, so you just have to tolerate her.
@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
20 Sep 10
I know what you feel right now.
In my opinion, you did the right things. The problem here just because your aunt, she is a bad guy. I hate the person like this.
Hope you can feel better after some days, and you will success with what you choice. Try your best, some near day in the future, what you really really want will be true, and in that times, no one can "efy" you anymore.
I believe it will happen to you.
Good luck and have a nice day! My friend.
