Should I turn back my exlover???

If you loved someone else, and not your husband, why did you marry him? If you stay with someone you don't love, you will be miserable. Your child will know this. Worse, you may end up resenting your child because he or she is the reason you stayed unhappy. You should perhaps get a divorce and try to be partners in raising the child, but both be free to find real love.

This is a tough one, Because you have made commitment to your husband and now have a child which a divorce will only effect the child. However you can't stay with someone you don't love, Its just not right. I say you should just go with what your heart tells you. Good luck :)

Doesn't your husband love you.If he does not love you then you can think of separating your ways because you both are not happy and eventually it will affect your child.He will bear the brunt of your estranged relationship.But if he loves you then leaving him for the sake of your happiness is a selfish choice to make. Start reciprocating the feelings.It takes two to make a row,remember that.I feel it will be unfair if you do not give him the chance which he deserves to be with you.

I know, how difficult for a women to live with a person that she never loved nor adjustable.But any way you have a baby now ,please take care of the baby please

listen to heart, for as long as you dint hurt yourself.

I know that a lot of people might disagree, but I would not stay in any relationship for the sake of a child. In the end the child will suffer, and may have confusion in the future when it's time for them to choose a relationship. Would you want your son or daughter to choose someone that makes them feel complete and 100% happy and in love, or someone that they end up settling for because they think it's the right thing to do. I know that I want my kids to just be happy, enjoy every minute of life, and follow their heart. About your ex, I too was in a relationship with a great guy, however I wasn't in love with him, there was no passion or happiness. When we broke up, I ended up running into my ex that I always thought about and never lost feelings for - we are still together and never felt happier. Some of my family members and friends disagreed with my decision, but I had to do what felt right for me. Now, years later everyone including myself can see that we were meant to be together, like we were designed for each other, and I wouldn't want it any other way.

You shouldn't be with someone that you don't love. I would turn him away. You have to move on. Find someone else.

You deserve to have love in your life. If you have given your marriage every possible chance and you really don't love your husband then I think you should consider getting a divorce. Your husband also deserves love in his life and it isn't fair to hold him back from that. Is he aware of how you feel? Staying together for the child doesn't work. Either the child will know that you don't really love each other and that isn't a good impression of marriage for him or he will actually believe that you do. Then when he is grown and you do end the marriage, he will feel deceived and also feel guilty because you lived in an unhappy marriage for his sake.

You know that was really tough situation as our life can be. if we are stay living with a husband which cannot love this make us unfair to us but be fair enough to our children. We had a commitment also to our husband and it is really hard to separate to them as our children got affected. They don't know nothing as they was born here because of us (husband and wife) with the permission of God. If we follow our feelings go for the guy that we really love we will become selfish. But who knows someday God allow this to happen and He gave us him our true love to be with us.

I think if you think that last time some misunderstanding is the main reason for your breakup then now you can go again to your ex lover but now you have cleared all misunderstandings. Because it is the main reason for breaking up love relationship. I hope for you. That again you never faced any problem in your love relationship.

hi , in the first place why did you marry your husband ? . You know that its against the law of God and the law of man to commit adultery . Why should you let satan tempt you. I'm sure satan will be very happy if you return to your ex lover . Please don't do that. If you don't love your husband , then get a divorce before you decide to go to your exlover. But if your husband is a good man , i'm sure its such a waste to lose a good husband, anyway you'll gonna learn to love a good man. and think of your baby. Your next move will make or break the future and life of your baby and your family because of your exlove. past is past forget what is not yours anymore.

first of all, our emotions is really hard to control. but, remember, that our mind is always on top of the heart so that then, it can tell the heart if it's rational or irrational. AS for your case, I am sorry to say, but feeling for that person is ok, but to really dwell in the emotion is irrational already. because secondly, you have a baby.. you have a family already, andyou need to work it up because at the end of the day,it's your family that will stay with you whatever comes. keep your head and spirit high. You can pass through it.:)