Do you like your siblings or your parents?

lol i dont think so cuz im a cold person i dont love any of them i just felt like they are strangers and i dont talk to them much. normal talking is just me pretending. i know is weird, but it all starts when i was 4 my parents left me to work and my grandparents were the one caring me, so i dont get to live with them for about 10 years? maybe im not sure but is just a long time. after that i dont feel anything about my grandparents so now i dont love anyoone! maybe except my girlfriend or somethin, but im not sure i have one yet. but normally i treat ppl nice outside of my family.

It sounds like you have been through some rough patches in your life, and I am sorry that you had to go through all that. I don't think you are a cold person, but I think that your hurt and your angry, which is understandable considering your situation; however, they are still your parents and grandparents. That will never change. Life is too short to hold in all of that anger. I am not asking you to start having casual conversations with them, but what I suggest is that you learn to get through the pain and the anger. I was abused by my step-father, mentally and emotionally abused, but I learned to forgive him, I don't forgive his actions, but I forgive him because if I don't it will eat me up inside, and I don't need that or want that. In time you will learn to forgive these people, but you will never forgive their actions. Sometimes, we don't or can't understand why people do what they do, but we can learn to get past what they have done and not let it hold us back.