Have you asked a stranger for money?

Begging for a a favor.  - Here is a kitten begging for a favor. Have you asked a stranger for some money?
@Lore2009 (7378)
United States
September 20, 2010 6:00pm CST
Have you ever had to ask a stranger for money for some reason (phone/ride money)? How easy was it for you to find change? Were those strangers more giving than you expected? Was it embarrassing for asking?
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8 responses
• Indonesia
21 Sep 10
In entire of my life, I have never had to ask money from a stranger. I think that it is not polite to ask money from a stranger for whatever reasons. But, I have some experiences that I have ever been asked by stranger. I didn't remember exactly when it happened. It has been happening while I was still at a senior high school. Oneday, when i get passed down the street, they were three stranger, they were boys still. They asked me some money and I didn't give them. They pushed me but I tried to fight back against them becuase I didn't have enough money. I won't have to give them money because they are juvenile. They beat me down until I was really enough brave to pick a wood and tried to hit them back. They ran away fearfully. I remember the moments and I promised I would never asked a stranger money because I felt how was it like when we are asked money by stranger.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
21 Sep 10
Wow, sounds like an awful experience. Thanks for sharing.
@oscar6 (1938)
• United States
21 Sep 10
I have never asked a stranger for money. I always carry extra cash with me just in case I need it. I would feel really embarrased to have to ask someone for cash. I know others do this but for me I would feel really low. I really dont think strangers would give others that much cash in the first place. But you never know.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
21 Sep 10
Yes, I'm curious how often people give money to others... and what difference it would make if one is homeless and one is not and just forgot their wallet. Thanks for sharing.
• Canada
21 Sep 10
I never have, but someone asked me for money when I got off the bus tonight. I live near the local drop in centre, so it happens too often. I am on a low income myself, so I really like to keep what I do have.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
21 Sep 10
I agree, I would like to keep what I have too. I'm not rich.
@ryzach (1544)
• United States
21 Sep 10
I have never done this and hope I never have to. I have been asked for change and used to help out but not much any longer due to my own financial needs. Things have gotten slightly better but have a long way to go. Not so desperate to ask for a handout, thank goodness. If I find change on the ground I pick up and add to my change jar for a rainy day.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
21 Sep 10
Thanks for sharing.
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
21 Sep 10
No, I've never asked a stranger for money. I haven't been in a situation where I had to do this. And I'm glad that I haven't had to. It's something that I really want to do at any point.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
21 Sep 10
Thanks for sharing.
• United States
21 Sep 10
I've never had to ask strangers for money, thankfully. I go to school in an area with a lot of homeless people and they always ask me for money. It makes me feel really awkward, although I can understand how it would make the person asking feel really embarrassed.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
21 Sep 10
I think people who are homeless are beyond embarrassment now since they just need to survive. Thanks for sharing.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
19 May 11
Hi. Lore2009. I am sure that I have done this this. I just can't remember on this part. But I did ask a man for a couple of dollars last year at Walmart. I was short of $2.00 and he gave it to me. I also asked this other man for money one time. And he sarcastically smiled at me and said, "What makes you think that I am going to give you some money and I don't even know you". Well, he did. I don't like asking people for money. After these two situations, I don't bother with asking a stranger for money anymore.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
24 Nov 10
Hello Lore, I have never asked a stranger for money, it would be really embarrassing for me. I'm not so proud person, but i can imagine how most of the people feel, when some stranger ask them for money, because we have a lot of beggars on our streets. On the other hand, i always am trying to think what would it be, if it was me, who needed little coins for something, as example if i loose my waller or i was robbed or something like that. It would be really sad and i sympathize that kind of people. I'm not so big helper, if i have to be honest. But i feel blessed with something and it is to watch the other people in their eyes and to try to feel their emotions. If i see there is something wrong, i would never give money to that person. I respect one reason for begging and that reason is hunger. I prefer to buy food and to give it to someone, than to give him money. I have to say that i'm not a rich girl too, lately we are not good even in paying our expenses, but when i was single, worked and had my own money, because i lived with my parents so not really much expenses, i always was ready to help.