i feel relieved..at the same time hurting

Sorry I was not there when you needed me, however I am glad your problems are sort of over, I am sure you are able to find someone more suitable, that I have no doubt.

Good for u!! Now it's the time for u to move on. Forget about him, and the times u had him in your life. Though it might be hard for u in the beginning, but it's also your first strp towards independence. Taking yourself out of your usual routine. It's a matter of time before u get used to it. Find some activities to do, distract yourself from him. Dun ever think that u are letting him down, but think of it as u are giving him a better future. U are being generous here. It's never easy to let go of someone. But u have done it, and u should feel proud of yourself

Saying 'goodbye' is the hardest thing to say especially if there is still bits and pieces of love attached to your heart. When you leave a 'sinless' person who still hold tight to you, the quilt consciousness will haunt you endlessly. If you are prepared to break your ongoing friendship in favor of another untested beau then you should be equally ready to shoulder that heavy emotional baggage which is the side effects of a sudden breakup. The initiator is not altogether free from hurt as most would think. You have to face the consequences of breaking someone's heart. You will be torn between the thought of your ex and showing your love to the present one. Oh...it is too messy where love and relationship is concerned. Good luck to you. Hope everything runs smoothly.

hi angel thats sad that at the same time you are relived you are also hurting . You must love him still.But if he will not change then something has to give.I take it that there were issues you wanted him to deal with and he has refused. I think you are strong enough to handle the situation and lead on with your life,.It would be great if he had wanted to work with you. but people seldom change. good luck.

hELLo Angel, Well, that is your choice. but at least now, it would give him a chance to recover and start looking for some one else. am sure he respects your freedom and choice to be happy with some one else. but you are probably confused now because you remembered the good things that he did for you. well, that's always the start, godbless with you're New Life and New Love. have a great day!