why would you say i love you to someone who you dont clearly love
By adeadey
@adeadey (19)
Nigeria
6 responses
@wiwa05 (230)
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
coz sometimes people are too afraid of hurting the person that had changed their life once. Sometimes even we have the urge of telling what is right, we do not have the power to do so. Even if you don't love the person anymore but still you care for him/her that's why you choose to lie instead of being true to him/her. And coz sometimes, the truth really hurts.
good day! ^_^
@wiwa05 (230)
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
BUT, if the right time comes, and you have the strength to tell and face the truth, one should tell him/her the what one really feels coz it's unfair for her/his part that you keep fooling yourselves. Have the courage to face the truth so you'll both find happiness one day that you both deserve it! ^_^
@krupesh (2608)
• India
21 Sep 10
Not at all a bad question.I think its just to cheat , nothing else to it.There is no true love but just to have some fun.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
21 Sep 10
I think we say i love you when we don't know what else to say. it is a phrase that is used by so many people in all kinds of situations and relationships. Even if we don't really love someone we are just inclined to say it anyway.
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
21 Sep 10
Hi,
This is a very legitimate question the answer of which lies in the labyrinth of human psychology. Most of us confuse between love and lust. Just because someone is attracted to you doesn't mean that he loves you. Attraction can be a good foundation for love, unless its entirely physical. Most of us have a very vague idea about love. In fact, we all have our own versions, which may be right or wrong. The instance you've depicted here is a typical example of such a confusion. The person who says 'I love you' but doesn't actually care, is motivated by lust or physical attraction. I think it is when you decline then the person says that he wanted to know her opinion. After all, nobody wants to look stupid. Most of them are not at all interested in learning your opinion, they just want YOU. It is pleasure that they are up to. So lets not be confused by these people who are confused themselves. Thanks.
God bless you.