Dog Poo on my doorstep
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
Singapore
September 20, 2010 11:52pm CST
Now before you start thinking that this topic stinks, let me share a story.
Let's say you have a garden, you have plowed the land and sowed the seeds. There is enough sunshine and water for your plants. What do you need next?
So you see this dog poo and you decided to use that for your garden, the perfect fertilizer. Isn't that a good way of getting rid of that unpleasant dog poo?
Here's the crux of the story, in our garden of life, what do you do with the unpleasant, nasty things in your life? Do you plant them in your garden and make it bloom with beautiful flowers or do you smear the dog poo onto your body and bring it around meeting everybody that way?
I hope you understand the analogy. Happy mylotting.
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12 responses
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
21 Sep 10
Yes, I understand the analogy although if you think about it literally it is pretty gross. I certainly hope that I am not one who goes through life spreading my stinky dog poo all over everyone. I would like to think that I make use of the dog poo I come across in life and turn it in to something wonderful weather than wallow in the stinkiness of it all.
@gdesjardin (1918)
• United States
21 Sep 10
Nicely put Lady. I think sometimes when life throws "dog poo" our way we do have days where we end up wearing it and spreading hate around. I try to make good of bad situations. I think you have to try to find the good in things or you end up being miserable.
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
22 Sep 10
@ladym,
Haha, don't take that in the literal sense.
Reflect on your actions and feelings and you would know how you react to each situation. Whether you are dog poo wearer or the gardener.
@gdesjardin,
Once in a while, we need to transfer some dog poo onto people, makes us feel better. Sometimes we wash it off and forget about it. It would be good to use them for our garden.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
21 Sep 10
Let's see here, sweetie.
I can freak when my dogs think the grass is their heavenly loo.
Smear it all over myself, not likely.
I would get those that make my life miserable, smear them with the dog poo and use them for fertilizer.
Hope i will get nice flowers out of that.
TATA.
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
21 Sep 10
I read a novel where one powerful lady was always kidnapping men to be used as fertilizers for her garden. She would plant them in a pot and buried them in the mud. She was cheated by a man when she was young and decided to seek her revenge on all men unlucky enough to be caught by her.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
I'll put the dog poo in a paper bag, put it on someone else's doorstep and burn it.
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
21 Sep 10
Why do you bother to burn it after you put on someone else's doorstep? and what did that person do to warrant this?
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
I'll burn it so that the smell spreads inside the house and sticks for a couple of hours, hopefully. Warrant for funtime i guess. Lol
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
21 Sep 10
hahaha, I didn't think of that.....you are.....evil.....
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
24 Sep 10
Your title does not do you or discussion justice. This is actually a very interesting topic!
Although you are so right in your analogy that if we get something unpleasant in life, we should be incorporating it on our garden of life, most of us wouldn't even get past the image. Specially in your example, where people have a vivid image of a dog poo in mind. Well, at least I have.
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
24 Sep 10
Thanks for appreciating the discussion!
I think it is a bit idealistic to say we should all put the dog poo into our garden and grow nice flowers out of it, however, I hope this topic serves as a reminder that we can do that instead of smearing the dog poo on our bodies and carry that around.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
21 Sep 10
I think if we are not careful enough we will move around in life with bags of hatred, vengeance, complaints, anger, jealousy and dogs' poos. Garbage belongs to the bins and as you say dog's poo should be left in the garden.
Love your post blue!
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
21 Sep 10
Yes, we are the first to suffer if we carry that garbage around.
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
21 Sep 10
You have understood my analogy well, tomi!
Many people are going around with their negative feelings and complaints of everyday life. Sometimes such negativity spills over onto others and I feel myself also being covered in that dog poo.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
21 Sep 10
I get your analogy very well and to the point, thinking back for a moment and reflecting on all my life lessons, I have to say that although there is some humor here, I think I have smear all the crap life has dished my way.
But only to note later in life that it was yet another life learning experience and I wised up and realized that the someone elses perfume can certainly smell like sh@t!
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
22 Sep 10
Surely they have to know how stinky it really is, but I suppose they are so immune to it that it they actually feel the stunk smells like roses.
I have always been the happiest and most cheerful person alive no matter what but this round I am facing leaves the poo trace so deep into the fibers that I wonder if I can recover this time around.
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
22 Sep 10
Oh no, this is bad to hear. Looks like you need some cheering up in your life.
May I suggest you take a rain check? Break away from your problems for a while first, when you come back to them later, you may see them in a new light and maybe you have a solution.
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
22 Sep 10
I feel sad when I see one particular friend of mine, she is always carrying dog poo around with her.
I know you have been through a lot in life and I would say, "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger". I discovered that some of the happiest people are actually those who have faced a lot of hardshps, they survived and their minds opened up. Now they are untouched by all those dog poo.
Isn't it funny how some people treat sh!t as perfume and show it off?
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Sep 10
hi oh my the dog poo in my life like the hateful manager who the moment he heard my son had lost his job wrote out an eviction notice, or being here in this place? I decided when I had finally cried my eyes out over our homeless situation to join the others here for the bingo sessions and any other creative thing and smile and be happy for each new day. My son is working and thats wonderful, I had an allergic reaction to something and the steroids they have me on made my blood sugar go up so felt horrible at dinner time but found there was one medication that I can take every six hours for the itching and I drank a lot of water to flush out the sugar. Now I feel ever so much better.So maybe getting more info and taking the antiitch pills was sort of putting the nasty mean things into my mental flower garden. I amazed at how those pills and the water have worked to make me feel a lot better tonight,. great discussion thanks for it.it too helped me to be itch free.
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
22 Sep 10
Hi hi hatley,
You seem to have a lot of dog poo left on your doorstep. I am really happy to hear that you always put them in your garden. Now you are blooming with beautiful flowers around you.
@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
21 Sep 10
Haha! I understand! Oh I thought that was indeed a nice way to explain some analogies there! Well, sometimes when we meet nasty people or incidents, we get upset for the whole day and when we meet people, we meet them not with our usual happy face, but the face that is "smeared" with dog poo. LOL! We have to learn to curb all these things and try to 'override' them with happy incidents.
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
22 Sep 10
Nice attitude you have there! That is also a way to get rid of the negativity, as long as you don't let the dog poo build up on your face. Make sure to clean it out as soon as possible.
@cbjones (1147)
• United States
21 Sep 10
Alright, first I would like to say that this analogy is shear genius as far as I'm concerned. The vivid imagery of seeing someone take a negative that would usually bring around anger and a little bit of puke if they had a weak stomach, and watching them turn it into a possible is superb.
In a perfect world, I'd always be in the right mindset to adjust and use whatever resources put in front of me in a positive fashion. More often than not though, I'm usually a complainer who is reluctant to go with the slow and make something work. I admit it. I admire those who always seem open to working with the obstacles that stand in their way to make things better.
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
22 Sep 10
It is not possible to be perfect, but we can work towards having a better life. I have come to realize that life is a struggle, we need to constantly go against the flow and move upwards. Sometimes we get tired and beaten down but sometimes we feel full of confidence that we can overcome any setbacks. We need to associate more with the positive than the negative.
@qianyun6 (2067)
• China
21 Sep 10
Hi, bluemoonpavilion!
You provided a very advisable attitude of life and treat things. And I agree with you absolutely.
But beside the philosophy, you also remind me a very annoying thing, "dog disaster" in Chinese cities. Last week in my English writing class, my foreign teacher let us write a paragraph about "What makes me angry or annoyed". And my writing is about annoying pet dogs.
Here's the full text:
I am so annoyed by the pet dogs due to the following reasons. Firstly, they mess everywhere so our living environment is badly damages. We should be careful of dogs’ poo on the roads when walking. Secondly, these dogs in the residential area may bark loudly and disturb neighbors, sometimes even their master can’t stop them. The third and the most important reason is they are really a potential danger of every resident. We can easily see vagrant or unleashed dogs hanging on the road, no one knows which time one of them will rush to somebody and have a bite. Also nobody knows whether this dog brings rabies virus, which is one of the most dangerous viruses in the world with nearly 100% fatality rate! Even worse, we can see large dogs which are definitely banned by laws. They are big enough to kill an adult directly! So I am really angry at those dogs, I hope the government would ban them in the urban zone one day!
I know some of the words are over radical and might offend somebody, but it's from my heart.
@carpediem17 (1315)
• Singapore
23 Sep 10
In this instance, we are putting the negatives to positive use. Well certainly a constructive way to solve the problem and still see a good outcome.
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
23 Sep 10
Hopefully we can still remember to react positively when there's a huge lump of dog poo aimed at us... I will try....