confessions from a BULLY queen :)
By melanierg
@melanierg (129)
Philippines
September 21, 2010 6:41am CST
hi there fellow mylotters :) i have a confession to make.. hope i won't receive any hate mails or some sort for this confession.lol.. :D i'm 25 years old,female, im in a relationship and i have a stable job. growing up ,i was a bully .. and up to this point in my life.. i guess and i might as well admit .. that i am . it all started when i was still in school.. i like to bully my classmates and some of them cry a lot.. even at home, i'm fond of bullying my nieces and i'll just stop when they cry, i'll laugh out loud to them and i find it funny.hehehe forgive me for being childish but this is what i always do, even at work, i make fun of my colleague and it's alright because they're a sport and they also laugh with me.. but sometimes i think that i'm pushing too far.. but it's who i am i think.. i wanna change .. what shall i do?
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3 responses
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
21 Sep 10
first thing you admit to it. second yeah not cool being a bully..
always remember if you treat others bad, it will come back around to you in one way or another. it could be you might do it to a person who dont think you are funny and could get really mad at you and give you one hell of a butt whipping or worst kill you.
second it could come back around when you have kids, or even if you do. they could get bullied. or if they learned this from you then they might do it to someone who isnt so nice and thier butt kick or killed.
you treat and respect others as you want them to do to you.
now with me, if you did this to me. i would laugh at you and then start right back into you. and i like to bet, yeah everyone who ever tried this with me always loose. i made them so mad and upset they either started to cry or they threaten to kick my butt or kill me and still sat there and laughed at them.
i respect you for being honest about this. yeah if you try to be nicer to others you will gain so much more respect from them
@melanierg (129)
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
hahaha :) i'm expecting to hear this , yeah, somethimes i'm thinking that maybe someday it'll all get back at me.. and i'm kinda scared too.. but sometimes i can't help it if the person's a loser. lol :) well, i guess what i'm doing is bad , i know this.. and btw, i'm afraid of people like you.haha! So i might as well stop before i meet someone like you syankee :) peace out ! :)
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
21 Sep 10
that is what you got to remember. also those who you bully could get bigger and bader then you are.
this is a leason i shown to this dude who used to bully me.. yeah i got bigger and stronger then he did when he crossed my path. then another dude who sat there tried to embrass me in front of my wife telling her how he used to beat the crap out of me when i was younger. let say i laid $200 out there for him to go outside with me to try to do it again.. he wouldnt
@melanierg (129)
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
haha,, hope and pray that won't happen to me coz im a girl.haha .. anyways, thanx and i'll try my hardest not to bully anymore . :)
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
24 Oct 10
Why do you like to bully? It's all cool when the other person is taking it in the right context as your co-workers. That sounds more like just joking back and forth and all in fun. but when it is hurting someones feelings then you are going overboard. It sounds like you know that it is wrong. Knowing it and admitting it is a start. You love your nieces right? You don't want them to have hard feelings toward you or be scarred for life because of your words...right? Try being really kind to them and see how amazing you feel when they look up to you and love to be around you as opposed to wanting to run from you.
@melanierg (129)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
thanks sid,, i'm stopping this one already.. i'm now thinking before making jokes or some sort knowing that someone will get hurt. thanks again. :)
