sharing love (sharing bf/gf)

i never have that experience ema.but if i get to to the same situation i will say no to that guy.you break up with you partner because of me?ridiculous!i am a bit afraid that he might do the same thing when we are a partner.

Well, It happened just yesterday with me. I was in This cyber-cafe, working, I saw this cute looking beautiful lady. This was love at first sight. We had quick interaction. I offered her a walk in the evening. It seemed we both were attracted to each other. In the moment of emotion I kissed her, She didn't have any objection and hence our love started. The same day in the evening when I was speaking to one of my local friend, who happened to break the ice saying the lady I took for the walk had a boyfriend already. I was surprised a bit. How can someone be so mean, or is she already broke with her previous boyfriend?? May be it was hard for her to be honest with me. However, I think it is cheating on my part to come between a healthy relation. I called her up later that night and asked her if she was in love with other person. She told me that the relationship was mere formality and they are on the verge of break-up. I am stuck here. please help me with the situation. It's my desire to tell her to come to me if only when she is alone and not in the relationship?? Is it the right way to go about this relation??

I admit I was in that situation before. I also do not understand why people and mostly guys never stay monogamous. It is cheating and unfaithfulness. What I do not understand is on how to determine if they are telling the truth or not.

I know a couple of people who have done this. Its not really right. whats the guarantee that is person will not leave us for another person in future. Its always good to be careful in relations.

If someone that I liked or even loved was already in a relationship I would just leave because a lot of heart break and arguments can form in this kind of situation plus I wouldn't like to be the back up guy or the fall back. $-MrDollars-$

Hi! I haven't experienced this situation. But, if I'm in this situation, I'm gonna break up with him before he'll break up with his first gf...I don't want girls to get hurt with boys...

Hi dear, Life become more free and easy to handle. We just get into a mall and shop whatever we required and come out of it. There may the things which we needed urgently and some things are which we really not need so urgent also. Likewise, there are food at home and we eat most times from outside and hotels. Because, it is for a change and sometimes we have to. We will have food from hotels and restaurants many times, even though there is food at home. Eat outside is not a sin and all would do. It is would do it. Like this, our life is also becoming like this. No seriousness on relationships and understandings. Life is living with chances. How the things right now in front us, we just manage it with for the time being. Today’s life ends here and tomorrow comes with a different today. So, look at the today, and face it and finish the ‘today’s life. So, here we have only ‘todays’ and no yesterday and tomorrow. If we live with just ‘todays’ then life will be like that only. If we keep values for yesterdays and tomorrows, we will not act like this. One girl, be true to her and be with her for the rest of life. Unfortunately, for many, it is impossible, because, we are among ‘abundance’ and ‘use’ the abundance with today – this is the principle for many. If this is the situation for the coming years, there may be a generation who doesn’t know who may be their father. Regards, Thank-s

well its not true.... its a lie... been there. done that.