self control

Who is wrong is not the point here. Behaving like this is very bad. This can't be accetable and excuseable. Fault is fault. Professionals are being trained to carry themselves in their taining ans seminars. That means he in not mentaly fit to do the job.

Maybe B did something wrong which made A do such barbaric acts. We don't really know the real story behind this. But this is really ugly. A shoudn't act like that. He must have self-control in handling his anger, and have a one-on-one talk instead. Because I believe that every misunderstanding can be solved with a serious talk.

In this case, A should not do that kind of thing to B. Yes you are right, A showed that he is unprofessional in that way. No matter what happens, he should be able to control his emotion. There is nothing good to do such bad things.

I've always talked my way out of a fight because only idiots start physical altercations over emotional stress tpwards another unless absolutely necessary. Self control is very honorable and makes you look like the better man/woman.

No, absolutely not. I wouldn't do it just because it is unprofessional. I wouldn't do it because it is rude! There are so many different ways to approach a confrontation. I have had to confront and have been confronted many times and I have never, in my life, been in confrontation that ended badly. Take the person aside. Tell them how you feel. Let them talk. Negotiate. Make amends. It's not even self control, it's respect.

That is absolutely all because of Anger..One should start how to control anger

oh, well, a lot can cause the unbecoming conduct of an officer, or of an employee. but, it all boils down to one thing - the attitude one person has in dealing with this angry person. officer B is a sensible person. one of the causes could be when one officer was caught being inefficient, or was not able to deliver, as reported by another officer who was affected by the inefficiency. another cause could be personal. some people cannot separate work from personal things. another cause could be envy. envious people's anger can be triggered by anything. and many more. it could sometime turn really ugly to the point that the aggrieved party is seriously hurt or killed.

hello figurativeme! there are people who just can't control themselves, their feelings and emotions especially when they get angry that's why you see people who risk losing their jobs, families, friends just because they failed to check in with their emotions, even at the slightest misdeeds. As an hr manager, i have had various encounters with employees like A, who just can't hold on to their temper. It's not actually an assurance that B had done some really bad things against A (maybe he did or maybe he didn't) but the fact is, A just cannot control himself. It could be the other way around, with A doing a misdeed against B, but B being a professional just shrug it off and did not retaliate and just let A be rant to his/her heart's content. people like this have some emotional imbalance and if i am the manager, i would not hire such kind of people, people with no self-control, for this would not only manifest in their behavior during anger but also during work hours as well and in dealings with other colleagues or clients.

People are either rational or emotional. "A" definitely belongs to the latter type as he can't control his feelings, showing emotional outburst and saying stuffs unbecoming of a professional. "B" on the other hand showed logic and self-control. These are the sort of people who run the world as they think rationally, weighing and calculating situations that confront them.

i only think my there is old saying which says....never ever argue with stupid reason is first he will let you down towards his stupidityness after that he will win coz he has more experince for being stupid insted of you..and as i am working in MNC sometime it happens

B handled the situation well,he did not loose his temper most of the people would just react like A but i think maybe he had a really good reason to act that way maybe B is just too much...well let's just admit it some people just don't know how to control themselves...