Should "making money" be the main goal in life?
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
September 22, 2010 9:57am CST
Making money is very important in life, no doubts about it. But can it be the main aim in life? If you spend more time in making money without giving time for your dear ones, will that life fulfilling? On the other hand spending all the time with family may result in less income for the family.
I think there should be some balance between these two and we should work hard and also spend quality time with family, what do you say?
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
22 Sep 10
Quality time with my love is very important to me, sweetie.
I should say work the normal hours as at any workplace and the rest of the day and weekends are free to spend time together.
Money is important, BUT not that important.
TATA.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
22 Sep 10
I know sweetie your response would be like this. Who would you give more importance to? your spouse? Or kids?
For this, I don't know your response.(sorry for going out of this box)
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
22 Sep 10
when I start too many discussions, these things will happen sweetie or appear like that to others. And you can never get all people say yes to your views in a international public forum like this. People are different, different cultures, different way of living etc etc...
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@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
22 Sep 10
Making money is important to run the family but at the same time keeping our family happy and content also is equally important. So we must balance the time to fulfill both the needs
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
22 Sep 10
Hi, vathsala, how are you? Can't find you here for a long time? I am happy to note most women have similar views about money, happiness and life.
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
22 Sep 10
oh, its true women seem to know more about love, relationships, care and happiness within family.
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@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
22 Sep 10
Hi, Vijayanths
I am fine. I was busy with some other commitments so unable to participate in Mylot, and especially in your discussions which is quite interesting to me.
In most of the household, women will run the family, they know the value of money as well as the cause of the happiness in the family. So, that may be the reason they think that without money, one can not run the family and with out the family what is the use of earning a lot of money?
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@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
I believe we can have it as our main goal as the book that i read about is the people priority is in the line of money so that they can be able to get their dream and have time with my family. If you work hard while you are young, you can earn money, you can either save it on the bank or let it grow through business and investment so that when you reach the age of retirement, you can spend your life with your loved ones and you can take care of your life and your family more. I want money working for me and not working for money,so while I am young I work hard to achieve that goal and the rest is up to right planning.
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
25 Sep 10
that's a good point grecy, that we can work hard when we are young and spend more time with family when we get old, right, well said friend.
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
22 Sep 10
I think that this depends on the person. Yes, money is important in order to survive, to eat, and such. But money is more important to some, and not as much to others. I think that it will vary from person to person. We won't all agree with the idea about making money as a main goal in life.
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
22 Sep 10
Hi, dodo, you are right that making money is not all in life as you rightly pointed out. It can't be the main aim in life..
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@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
Hello, Vijay.:)
I do agree that we should balance earning money with spending time with family.
We need money in order to sustain our will to live. But, the need for money should be in moderation and with limitations not beyond what is necessary. Because beyond it, it is already a GREED. We should possess money and not the other way around.Men should not live by bread alone.:)
Family on the other hand, is the living proof that we are humans capable of feeling. Breathing. Without our family the essence of our lives is nothing. The reasons for our existence is empty.What is life without you or him or her or they? What is life when there's no one to share it with? Isn't it a lonely world being alone?
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
22 Sep 10
Hello eurekafemme dear, You always come up with your meaningful responses. I am so happy to read them.Yes we need to live in homes and not houses. We need money to be happy but money can't give us happiness always. How is your daughter now?
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@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Hi, Vijay.:)
Money isn't everything, dear.And sometimes the things that can truly make us happy are priceless.:)
She's doing ok now and free of the bacteria. I'm so thankful to God for it.Thnaks for asking.:)
Have a great day.:)
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
22 Sep 10
I personally feel that making money becomes meaningful with the ultimate aim of using it for a higher purpose in life. And that is to strive in the quest for the betterment of oneself and the family as well as the community around and mankind at large.
The hows of Making Money should also include a balance between the individual, the home and the work in terms of physical, emotional and psychological well being.
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
22 Sep 10
well said tomitomi, absolutely right. I liked your words
"The hows of Making Money should also include a balance between the individual, the home and the work in terms of physical, emotional and psychological well being". I fully agree to this.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
22 Sep 10
well of course you need a great balance. You need to be able to make the money that will give you the freedom to be with your family. the kind of money that works for it's self. that's what i am doing with my website! and i love it
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
24 Sep 10
you are just great 34momma, I am happy to note that you are making money and at the same time allocate quality time for your family as well.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
22 Sep 10
People who love money have no life. Every minute of the day he thinks about money and how to be rich. He works hard everyday to make more money leaving no time for socializing and family. He has forgotten that life is too short and when he die one day he will be buried next to a poor man.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
22 Sep 10
Its true zandi but there are some smart men who work hard, make big money and also spend quality time with family. I think they are the best, what do you say??
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
22 Sep 10
Well said, Zandi! I think living like that makes one very lonely too, which is another con.
@derek_a (10873)
•
22 Sep 10
Whilst making money is very important to feed, clothe and house my family, it is not the most important thing in my life. As I get older, I realize that if I was to choose what the most important thing is, it would have to be my good health and vitality because without it life can be pretty miserable, regardless of how much money one would have. Then there is family for whilst we are on this earth, it is fulfilling to have people around who care for us and give us some good companionship, but non of the things that I mention can we take away from this world. We came into it alone, and we go out of it alone. _Derek
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
22 Sep 10
very true derek, money can do wonders but not always. Money can't get you health sometimes, it can't provide you peace and happiness sometimes.So we need love, care, health and money.
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
You know my friend, it doesn't mean that when we are looking for money online mean no family time.
Money is only a sort of important thing for us to live and making money online is a goal that suit depending on what our interest are.
The good thing in making money online is that we are near committed to our family and not going anywhere else to find a jobs and not seeing our family in eight hours beyond.
There are more time for us to bond with our family and this is depend on us to balance it. But if you are responsible enough with your family, you can make things better in your family...
Have a great day!
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
24 Sep 10
Hi, aerous, you are right. money is very important in life and at the same time we are also committed to our family.Well said friend.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
22 Sep 10
harry, there could be no second opinion on that, but which is more important?
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@mrsmakawak (90)
• Canada
22 Sep 10
Family and health are the most important things in life. My main goal is to have a happy family and to enjoy what is out there. You don't need money to do everything in life and your main goal should be happiness, health and balance
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
22 Sep 10
Well said mrsmakawak . Can't money provide you good family, sound health and happiness? I think sometimes not. So as you said main goal should be happiness, health and balance.
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@mdcargo (5)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
We couldn't deny the fact that MAKING MONEY is one of the essentially major goals in our LIFE. Yes, it is for that aspect! However, to live life to the fullest is to be BALANCED in every aspect - physical, financial, career and work, family and social life, health and wellness, friendships and relationships, leisure and our intimate relationship with the Divine Creator. For me, it doesn't really matter how much money you have in the bank, how much money you may have owned, how many places you've been to, how many prominent people you know, what honors and recognitions you may have achieved, for LIFE IS SIMPLY WHAT WE MAKE IT! And, this is what really matters in the end.
LIFE means to Love, Inspire, Forgive, and Endure! Life is to - Believe, Care, Dream, Give, Laugh, Listen, Share and Touch Lives. This simply means that despite sorrow we still dare to LOVE, despite failures we INSPIRE, despite pain we FORGIVE, and despite hardships we ENDURE.
Allow me to share one of my favorite quotes by the famous Nicolas Sparks, "I am nothing special, of this I am sure. I am a common man with common thoughts and I've led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten, but I've loved another with all my heart and soul, and to me, this has always been enough.."
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
25 Sep 10
wow, this is definitely a great response mdcargo. You have given a complete research and come out with thought provoking response. Each word you said is so meaningful and and powerful. You must be an intelligent lady, I am happy to know you friend.
@mdcargo (5)
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
I'm just happy to be able to share some small things in LIFE. I'm glad you've posted that topic too, makes people ponder on something. Hey, you might want to read a poem i composed related to this topic - http://www.voicesnet.org/displayonepoem.aspx?poemid=180572
I would appreciate it much! :-)
@oscar6 (1938)
• United States
26 Sep 10
I agree that you should balance your time. I think that you should just make enough money for your family to live comfortably and then use the rest of your time for them. Obviously family is more important than money, at least they are for me. I do enjoy making money online and off but I enjoy the company of my family more.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
24 Oct 10
Hi, oscar that is the way you should balance them both. It's nice to note you do that so well,You can live a happy life.
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
23 Sep 10
No. Time, health, peace and happiness should come before making money. Money is very important and we need to make it in order to survive in the world today, but often people are so driven by their need to make it that they miss out one very important thing...They forget to live!
Time is very important and so much more important than money. If you lose money, you can always get more. Time, once it has gone will never return. You can never go back and relive your children growing up, you can never get back those family birthdays that you missed out on because you were away working and you can never get back those missed opportunities.
If you spend the time doing enjoyable things with family and friends instead of working your life away, then you will have less stress, better health, more happiness and you will be at peace.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
24 Sep 10
Hi, RawBill1 nice to note you think Time, health, peace and happiness should come before making money.I agree with you that Money is very important and we need to make it in order to survive in the world today, but often people are so driven by their need to make it that they miss out one very important thing...They forget to live! well said.
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
24 Sep 10
Yes, these are things that I have learned through my own experiences in life. I have been working for 22 years now and many of them I spent way too many hours just scratching, trying to get ahead, but missing the big picture. Now I see the picture more clearly. I still have a strong work ethic, but I realise that life is too short to stress about trying to 'make it'!
• India
26 Sep 10
not absolutely. money is only a part of our life. time is more important than money i mean to say at appropriate times we should spend with our family members. we should not ignore family members. and if you still feel that u have time you can see the ways for earning money. so we should be balanced for a happy living
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
7 Oct 10
Hi,jpreddychillasai , you said it so beautifully. I agree with you that money is only a part of our life. We should spend quality time with our family too. We need to balance our time between making money and spending time with family.
@raijinald (5)
•
26 Sep 10
Money cannot buy happiness. It is a tool to keep life moving towards happiness.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
24 Oct 10
hi, raijinald, you are right that money can never buy happiness. It;s only a tool to keep life going smoothly. well said.
@moneyspinner (613)
• Mumbai, India
23 Sep 10
good topic vijay :).
Well there are three types of people in the world :-
1 Who believe in spending quality time with their family and are happy with decent money which satisfies their little wants.
2 Who just cant live without money, they want to accumulate it more and more, they just cannot control their greed for it, These people are usually shrewd in nature and people from all classes who's aim is to make money by hook or crook come in this category.
3 who have no attachment to money whatsoever, they are saints :D.
All will have different opinion to the above discussion according to their class :D. most of us belong to the first class.
Yess Making money is very important in todays world as money can buy most of the things :), but not at the cost of near and dear one's. Because they are the first priority in our lives, secondly if you have no family or near/dear ones, whats the use of making so much money, which you have no-one to share with or enjoy life ? yess you can buy anything, but will you be happy living all alone with all money around you ?
The answer is simply "No".
Hence I agree that there should be a balance between family life and money making, you should have the quality time to spend with your family, money only helps in buying intangible and tangible assets :D, but it can't buy relations/love/mother/wife/husband/emotions/friends.
Hence family, near and dear ones should be our first priority in life because for everything else "there is a Master card" :D
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
25 Sep 10
I am happy with your wise response moneyspinner. At this young age you have good knowledge about life. You have analyzed the subject so well and come out with excellent response.
@moneyspinner (613)
• Mumbai, India
18 Oct 10
Thank you vijay sir :)
All This has been the result of experience and observation in life of 24 years :D. I have seen people closely suffer on account of greed for money and some in need for money :P. Being connected with astrology gives you a chance to see life on a more broader scale. I want to be of the 3rd kind or atleast hope to get a grace of 3rd kind of person "A saint" in life.
Thank you once again for liking my response :)
@brankasfile (102)
• Indonesia
24 Sep 10
I agree with u, vijayanths. We must do balance between work or make money and family. If doesn't we loosing one of them. But that come back to our principle
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
25 Sep 10
yes, brankasfile, there are some smart men who work hard, make big money and also spend quality time with family. I think they are the best, what do you say?
@brankasfile (102)
• Indonesia
25 Sep 10
I agree too. But if we can did such thing, don't forget about our healthy for doing hard work. Is that right? vijayanths