How do you take your failure...?

Success and failures are two side of a coin and they will appear in our life, and not everytime it would be a success. I take it as part of life and take some lessons not to repeat mistakes. That is the way we can improve on mistakes and failures.

well,it is really hard for me to admit the fact ,but when i think it over ,i would accept.since i can't change the result and it is no use crying over spilt milk,i might as well learn something from it .then,i would find out the mistakes and try my best to prevent such mistakes from happening again. what's more, i would not get over myself again.i learn to be modest .

Accepting failure is hard, Furthermore, some people take it seriously and turned their failure into disappointments and lead to depression. However they don't know that failure serve as a learning experience. Failure will come no matter how safe you are in achieving your goals. Moreover, every failure we encounter becomes a stepping stone towards success.

you are right, failures are stepping stones to success. However, there is an annotation to that chayapathys.. failures can only be stepping stones to success if we learn from our failures, from our mistakes. But if we are always failing, over and over again, committing the same failures without learning from it, success would be far from us. instant success without failures are not much sweeter than having had to deal with failure first, learn from it and then charged on towards success. i agree with you that failures must not hinder us, it must propel us forward, towards growth and success.it must motivate us to do better next time, so that we may succeed.

I want to respond this to this with a quote: "Effort only releases its reward after a person refuses to quit" - Napoleon Hill, author of the best-seller "Think and Grow Rich" Focus on the reward, keep your eye on the prize, enjoy the ride :-)

When we do something "bad" we spend the rest of the day thinking about it, but like some intelligent person said, we are humans, and we commit tons of bad things in our life and if you think about it, you forgot that memories and now you're thinking about it AGAIN, forget it.

For me it is expenses and don't want to happened it again so I want to success with carefulness.

Hi chayapathys,in my opinion,to face all the failures in grace is not such an easy thing.Especially when one works hard for a long time and makes great efforts but you gets nothing significative.Then he may think that life is too unfair.Faiures usually tend to discourage us and they often come one after another just like waves. But it's the obstacle that we must come over on the way to success.I think that's the reason why just the minority can accomplish their goal but most of us fail in the end.I do prefer to face failures optimistically.

I agree with you, failure is not a reason to stop and desperate. To me, failure is a lesson to make me a better person. Its a moment for us to see our weakness and badness and erase it from our self. A success person is not a person who never make a failure or mistakes, but those who can make his failure and mistakes as a moment to make him a better person, and grow even bigger. And sometimes, from those failure, from the hardest moments of our life, we found the best part of our self, which no one else has.

Failures are really hard to accept or manage. Especially when you failed something you really want or something very important to you. As of me, I manage my failures by accepting it wholeheartedly and move on. If given a chance, to do it again then I will give my best to finally succeed on what I had failed previously. Also, I will rather work hard and prove to myself that I can handle anything despite my failure on certain things. I will never dwell so much on making my life miserable because I failed. But rather I will give my self to regain myself again and hope for this time that I will become successful. And of course getting ready to fail again and stand up again. Failure is not a bad thing because it can mold you into a different kind of person. It will make you stronger and braver to take things.

At first I will feel sad, then I will just pray and leave the rest to GOD. I know deep within me that there's a reason to everything and after the failure there's a success. It will be my motivation to pursue my goal.

I do take my failure positively. Although it is difficult , i know that it can teach me new things and experience. My view is nothing we do in our life is a waste. It has its own contribution in our life. I did like to say about Edison. He discovered tungstun filament after thousand failure attempt with other elements. When asked about his falure he said I discovered 1000 elements which cannot be used for making bulb. That should be our attitude too...

I take my failures as my stepping stones for me to success. Whatever failure I made I give it all to God who strengthens me. I will never quit cause God never quit on me!!! I will hold on to Him and never let go!!!

As they say, failure makes you successful in life. When I fail I really get disappointed and depressed. I would rather stay alone and silent in my room. But then I will always say to my self everytime I fail. Maybe this is not for me maybe God has many reasons why HE did not grant my wish.By then, I came to realized that I have to stand again and accept the failure and began to move on.

There is no such thing as a failure. There are just weird life experiences. People let life get them down too much. They expect everything to be perfect all the time. Reality check...Life is a clunker car on a bumpy road...enjoy the ride as much as possible...open you mouth and go uuuuuhhh and laugh. Shalom~Adoniah

Failures are not easy to take. I always find it hard to deal with it automatically. Though i was able to control myself from doing things that i would regret later but it really hurts. It makes me moody and friends find it hard to take to me since i preferred to be alone than to be with people. But i never linger long with it. I would just leave the place where it happens. but not for long. A day or two away from those incident wil make me feel better.

I try my best not to take failure in a negative way. It can bring us further into depression and leave us feeling like we can not succeed. i try to take a failure and turn it around into something more positive. there is already failure. there is nowhere else to go but up from there. Success is only within our reach. All we have to do is go after it.

i was failed in engineering 1st year in last year....it was very depressing experience ...i learned a lot of things in that one year...now i am back...i am in 2nd year after clearing my 1st year....i am trying harder in studies because i dont wanna face failure again....i have never done this before i have never studied like this before in my life...i wont be a university topper but i will get passed for sure...this failure was both depressing an helpful for me and i have learned a lot of things in that.. happy mylotting

I take failure as my weapon. They say that I am weird for looking for my failures more than the achievement, but I find it more effective for me, for I learn to mush myself harder, to the limit.. and I do not put an end to my development. I do not like boosting up my ego, I love it more when I had to crash down my ego,put them into pieces and make them more stable.