Getting past your past

Hi Saphrina, yes everyone will have a great future and this feeling itself gives us some sort of enthusiasm and encouragement in the life. This we have to think and plan our own good future. It is in our hands to some extent.

Hi anna, yes past is past. Well said anna, present only we know but for me future also is important. Our present best plans for tomorrow may be useful not only for us but also for our family members. If we think about the our family betterment then we always go in a right way. Thanks for your sharing anna. Good night.

Hi Buchi_bulla, with pleasure, you can, since you are from my place and from the same polytechnic college, yeah some are the things we can't forget, true they hunt us like our shadows, that is why i will say to people to leave everything to god and pray for your enemies if you have and forgive them, you will get some what satisfaction and your feeling will be much better rather thinking they hurt you. Yes Vijayanth anna will call me as sister. How nice of you my friend. Past is past leave everything to god and move forward. God bless you.

thanks for your msg. I really shocked that you are my senior most person from my college, may be i didn't born that time, still i felt happy to hear from you that day. But later i didn't see you here in mylot. Happy to see you here again. Hope everything will be fine.

Hi sender, yes this life itself is a journey and past is our experience through which we can learn lessons and make it rectify if any if possible and make lives better. Rather we can say it is repairing our life. Thanks for your opinion. Have a good day/night.

Hi jotomy, How wonderful that story is. I must admit that the realization of what we are doing brings can bring a change in any person who is good and has a morale. In Indian mythology too, there exist several such instances where hard core criminals have turned to sages and rishis(this is a term in hindi language to refer to saints and sages). This was possible just because they were able to realize that they were doing wrong and then gave up their immoral activities and attained great heights. In the modern world, though people have become more busy and rarely look into others' lives, in remote and not so developed places, people do have that approach. As for the thief in my reply, yes, the chances of re-starting a life is possible once the thief tries to relocate. People would not consider him to be a thief, but cops... they are a different breed. But let me also mention that some people relocate with a different image to other places but just cant go in for a change in their behavior and attitude. India has some examples recently to testify this. Have a great time, Sids.

thanks thesids see for me anything is the work is work, may be that thief's work is to theft things, he must be sincere in his work, but he must realise how much he is giving pain to other persons. Punishment in the prison is not the solution realization and make resolution is only the solution.

Hi thesids, nice example. Yeah there are chances are there for that thief. But that thief why he is residing there, why can't he go away from that place and lead a new life (a changed life) and prove himself and to the society he become good. This change is must to every person. Changing lives with the good attitude is a break for the past. There is a story about one thief in our old tales. That thief will come to a house to thief some thing, but he will hear to the discussion of the couple about their daughter's marriage and about the money how they gathered, this thief will realise by hearing to their discussion how bad he is, doing nothing but greedy to have money. He will leave that place and live in a good way also he will start helping others too. Whatever the money he looted all these days he will distribute to the poor people. So realisation is a must and make resolution. Sure who suspected or hated that thief, one day those people will that the thief become good. Simply thinking about the people about the opinion on him is really waste of time, he must take as the challenge and prove his goodness if he can. Should be courage and keep faith on god and move. Sure he can see better results. After joining to this site i feel world is so small. I even reading all the responses and discussion are very similar, i think human beings thinking is same but some are with different opinions. Especially what i saw is all the women thinking is almost same. Thanks for your nice response. Have a good day.

Hi tomitomi, yes it is not so easy, but we can plan our future better by taking past as a experience and leave the past and move on. Thanks for your participation. Have a good day.

Hi totallyundecided, yes if you have faith on god it itself gives you lot many solutions. Past is our basic foundation through with we can make our pillars strong. But some of the past experience will be bitter that we must forget and move forward. Thanks for your sharing. Have a great day. @ daveng. true we learn from the failure. Because we keen on that subject so it makes us to think about it.

Hi AndrewFreyne, It is good always to forget the past but you can learn some ethics from the past that we should not forget. Forget past and move towards future in a right way is good always. Thanks for your nice response. Have a wonderful day.

Hi purplealabaster, Yes our past experiences help us to mold to become good. Yeah some of the past things are not good to think and keep on thinking about it. We should try to keep faith on god and move but not the past. Thanks for your sharing. Have a wonderful day/night.

Hi johnpillai, yeah, these words give much encouraging and zeal to live. Thanks you liked my words. Happy for your response. Have a great day dear.

Hi diogz, true our past is our foundation of success, you can learn many things from the past, but you should leave the past and live in the present. I too agree past experience will make you more strong emotionally. Thanks for your nice response. Have a great day.

Hi wiwa, yeah we should keep moving forward treating the past is past. But past is our lessons to make our future life perfect. Blaming our past is a stupidity. God is there for all of us, he will guide you to go in a good way. Thanks for your opinion. Have a great day.

Hi floranabolilan, welcome to mylot. true words. thanks for your short and sweet words. Have a wonderful day.

Hi jypsyjulia, yes we look forward to the future, past is past, but from the past we can learn some good things, which help us to move us in a good way further. I too agree god has plans for every one. He never let us down. Thanks for your sharing. Have a good day.

Hi keep_onwatch, i agree with you, the past is the result for the future. But you should not think the past alone and thinking that you made a mistake then you will not get any solution. So dear keep faith on god and forget the past, forget your difficulties and look at the future and plan yourself how best you can do, try to do it. Sure i am telling you the fact that one day you will succeed in this matter. Treat past is past. Ofcourse some of the things will be dictating better leave it there itself and move to further. I wish all the people will live happily. I know our past is our experience but we must think they our real lessons and it will guide us how best we do for further. Thanks for your opinion. Have a wonderful day. God bless you.

Good evening dear florin, see if we take a negative one in a positive way then it will give you positive result but if you take a positive one also in a negative way then it will give negative results, all depends upon how we treat the things. I like your words well said. WISH FOR THE BEST, PREPARE FOR THE WORST. very nice. If everyone will understand these words, then they can do better plans in their life. If god grace also added then their life is more beautiful. I wish everyone will have such beautiful and wonderful life. Thanks for your nice conclusion. Have a wonderful day.

Hi rdramirezc, true we are advised by the god that we have past and that past we have to keep it as a past only. But i too agree that past is also one way will help us to rectify our errors occurred in our life. We may not inspired by the past but we can take it as an experience and move on. Thanks for your response. Have a wonderful day.