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It doesn't sound like a good idea at all considering that she has a new boyfriend. Talking to her and being on friendly terms is one thing as long as you have gotten over it but going out is quite another.

I dont like ex girlfriends. They are very cunning. They are thinking that those guys they had a relationship with before are still going to fall in love with her. I think it also depend on the kind of ex girl friend that you have cause there are really ex girl friends who are B******!

It depends on the circumstances that caused out relationship to fail. If it was due to a disagreement, than I may be willing to give it another go. If it was because one of us was unfaithful, it may be best to not hook up again because of that. Once trust is questioned in a relationship, it's hard for everything to go back to normal. You will always be thinking, in the back of your mind, are they still fooling around? Do they think I'm a pushover of doesn't deserve any respect what so ever? Would I be in the right to get back at them by cheating?

Maybe I'll ask her first if her boyfriend knew what she's doing. Then no matter what her answer is, whether yes or no, I will never go out with her again. Even though I'll treat her as a friend now. I will think of what would be the feeling of her boyfriend because I knew already the feeling of pain in her hands when we broke up. And I think her boyfriend will not like it if he'll know what her doing.

It really depends... But if that's the case, that she has a boyfriend but still wants to persuade in going out with you, I would NOT go out with her if I were you. There are two things to consider here: 1st, you could be their 'cause' of split up. If that's ok with the girl, that might not be ok in your reputation. Others or definitely most people would think that your a bad person - for allowing and making them to split up. You shouldn't do that to your self. You deserve someone better than her! And second, if she can do it now, with her present boyrfriend, she could definitely do it to you as well if you'll get back with her. Think of it! Think and decide wisely coz it's your happiness as well what counts here. Don't be with someone that might and could cause you so much pain in the future. You deserve to have your happiness! Good luck! God bless! ^_^

i will go out with him if and only if with a group of common friends... we could be civil with one another. and in the long run we could be just plain friends.

I simply say no to my ex friend as I know they will again cheated on me ..so why to hurt myself again and again while I am happy with my present life ...this kind of situation comes to me once but before that he was my good friend too so I was just trying to postpone the meet ..then he also understand that..that she does not want to meet me..