i was annoyed last night
By hushi22
@hushi22 (4928)
September 22, 2010 11:12pm CST
last night after duty the other foreign guy who offered his love to me visited me at work telling my colleagues that he was my husband. he went there to pick me up. i didn't like it because he wasn't my husband, not even my bf. i really wanted him to stop chasing me, but he kept on coming and chasing me.
i don't want the relationship i have with my bf to be ruined because of him. =(
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8 responses
@anthonydt (134)
• United States
23 Sep 10
How did you meet this foreigner guy? I hope he's not through the internet. I would have told the guy to get out of my face or else you will call the cops on him... and that you have a boyfriend!
@blithejove (68)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
i can somehow relate to your situation, some of the foreigners would like to do everything just for a woman to love them. Maybe he has seen a good quality about you that he likes the most. He was just trying his best if he can win you. If your not really interested with the guy confront him and don't ever had any communication at him at all.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
2 Mar 11
Hi. hushi. You should get your boyfriend to approach him and tell him to leave you alone. He is trying to create problems in your relationship. Don't let him at all. He is really a pest. I hope that he will leave you alone. Can't he see that you have no interest in him?
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
23 Sep 10
First time when he offered his love you should have made it clear to him that you are already reserved for someone else, he wouldn't have followed you after that, after all who doesn't like or love a girl like you, it is your duty to make it clear to your lovers,that you are already in a relationship.
@Joe_Black (253)
•
15 Aug 11
What a creep... slap him infront of all the colleagues and make it clear how it is!
And you shouldn't worry about your boyfriend, if the relationship is good and trusting he surely won't mind! =)
@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
4 Jan 12
I really hope your colleagues don't believe in him.
I think this is high time for you to drag your boyfriend into this matter. Tell everything to him. Having a stalker is scary! Besides, if you're worried about your relationship with your BF, it's just right for him to know about this. At least both of you can think of some way to shoo this pesky foreign guy off.
If it's possible, get your boyfriend to pick you up from and to work. That way you can be safe from him. I just hope he have enough manners to at least back down since you're with your boyfriend.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
23 Sep 10
Sometimes psychos will not take no for an answer so please do not walk alone especially after dark. If he persists and things get a bit freakish you may want to file a report.
Be careful.
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
Well, you can talk to that guy calmly and explain to him that you appreciate that he likes you and all but you will appreciate it more if he will know his limits and his place in your life. Tell him that he is just a friend and you are loyal to your bf and don't want to create any trouble in your relationship because of any factor. Try to tell it to him in a friendly way as possible so he won't get offended and think any drastic action..Good luck Hushi
