i try 2 b the bettr wife 2 my husband...

I guess you should give him space.Generally guys do not want interference in life.They are loving and caring but at the same time they do not want excess of everything.So care for him but do not over indulge and let him feel that you are trying to interfere.May be guys are egoistic and they think they are capable to ahndle things on own so you must also maintain your self respect.If you will stop helping him automatically he will feel the change and will himself ask you for help which will make you closer to him and your bond will grow more strong.In husband and wife relationship self respect of both should be maintained and both should avoid being emotional fool rather love and care should come with balanced attitude,

I also experienced the same thing with you. I sometimes feel like a wife who is not useful. Now I always ask my husband, if need my help or not? So I'm sure, my husband needed my help. So I will not be a bully.

I think a good wife is always helped her friends in every work. So as you say you are giving your helped to your husbands. I think you have good habits and also you are a good wife. And really your hubby always happy to you. Because you are perfect wife of your hubby.

Well I recommend to first find out what your husbands likes.Don't get involved in any of the things that your husband don't like.Try to understand him and satisfy him to the best of your ability.I am damn sure you will definately see some changes in your husband.Hope this tip works for you.Have a nice day. Regards Saurav

my heart felt what you are into.do your own thing.if that thing makes you happy doing go ahead.but since he had been complaining give him space.let him realize how much will he miss for that.its good to stand by your man but he wishes to break free let him.if time will come that he needs you give him a hand without anything uttered.he will he realize he could do nothing without you.hehe.cheer up.things will work out fine.but for now love yourself.pamper it and make a new look.that way you will lessen the attention spent to "interfere" with him...