Have you ever told yourself never to be in love again?
By chiyochan
@chiyosan (30184)
Philippines
September 23, 2010 6:06am CST
Have you ever told yourself that you will never ever be in love again - because you have had your heart broken way too many times... and then you found yourself helplessly falling in love ... again? (maybe not on the same person but to a different person.)
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16 responses
@zmluckyseven (541)
• Indonesia
23 Sep 10
whoa that's something that i told myself for 1 year and until now i dont want to get any relationship before i get my graduation,but i promise to myself to never falling in love with someone because ,falling in love not our fault but is what our heart say .
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@turist1 (175)
• Bulgaria
23 Sep 10
After my last boyfriend I had a really bad Heartbreak and I told my self I'll never allow myself to feel the same. I just couldn't take anymore lies in our relationship. It took me 2 years to forgive myself for letting off my guard, but now I'm with new guy. I don't know if it's going to be forever, but I'll try my best to make my relationship go smoother.
@deriellevc73 (982)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
hello chiyosan!
oh yes! i have told myself never to fall in love again a thousand times perhaps, but the next thing i knew? i had fallen in love again, lol. My heart betrayed me again, sneaking on me like that, just when i thought to rest for a while from the chaotic and heart-wrenching turmoils of relationships, there goes my heart again, beating hopelessly again.
as they say, the heart was placed lower than the brain so that the brain could rule over it at all times. However, there are things that the heart could know that the brain would never understand. The heart or rather love has a language totally unique on its own and even the genius-brain could not fathom and understand.
i 'd say the heart just can't be tamed. and love is like a thief in the night who comes in just when you least expect it, sweeping you off your feet and wrestling your defenses down and before you knew it, you have already fallen helplessly in love again.
@xenachinah30 (597)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
yes,it happened to me many times.cheated and fooled many times not because im idiot or something but because i trust people easily,loyalty and honesty is best on me when it comes to love and i love more than myself but that was before now i learned many lessons no to trust wholeheartedly to someone even friends ar neighbors.
@deepali_singhal (26)
• India
23 Sep 10
ya many times i told myself to never been in love again and u know with same person but after some time i again falls in love with that same person my husband as u can't quit from love
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@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
23 Sep 10
As far as I remember, I never said such a thing, because it means I give up, and I am giving up on giving up.
Everytime I experienced brokenheart, one of the best medicine for me was to find or build another love story / relationship. Because one of my goals in life is to get married and to have a healthy family.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
14 Dec 10
Well i believe in soulmates, when i met my love and married him in my life. We are xerox of each other in all our thoughts and actions. I experience falling in love again and again each day!
@jmayangcoF (279)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
yes,, when i got hurt to someone,, and i think ,,, there's always a time to be fall in love again but i think it is not now.,., because until now i am hurt.,.,.,.,
@jmayangcoF (279)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
yes,, when i got hurt to someone,, and i think ,,, there's always a time to be fall in love again but i think it is not now.,., because until now i am hurt.,.,.,.,
@jmayangcoF (279)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
hmhm hi?
actually i am heart broken now a days ,, so i told my self not to fall in love again cause it is just giving more hurts again,m.,,.,but i hope someday that in this experience i can learn some more.,and i hope god will provide me a better bf that not to hurt me again.,.,.,.,
@brean_rhea (176)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
In my experience so far, i did not yet told myself like that....because as we live in this world, we will always have to love....
@cyclopz (251)
• Sydney, Australia
18 Dec 10
Yes i did, quite recent i think. Its been months already trying to recover and move on. It was the first heartbreak i had maybe that is why it hurt so much and takes a lot of time to recover. Been depressed for months and wishing i could just move on. How i wish it would never happen again because its quite hard recovering. I just try to enjoy being single now and have more time for myself and not trying to rush things..
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
23 Sep 10
Yes once I have faced some hurts in love so I again never want to go in love. I know what a person feel when he/she become in love and when somebody cheat you then its hurts never lives you with please. So now I always beware about love. And never want to go again in love.
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
I guess in one way or the other, most of us often told that ourselves. whenever we are hurt or when something go wrong with any of our activities, may it be love or any other thing, we end up saying that we will never do that again..it's the same with loving. At the time of hurting, we tend to promise ourselves not to love again, thinking that when we still do, we will just end up hurting and crying again. Yes, I did tell that to myself, and just like others, my heart can be stubborn that it fails to keep its promise. On the other hand, I believe that it is reasonable not to give up on loving since it is the thing that keep us alive and inspired...may it be love for a lover or parent or siblings or anyone...