Will you go naked in front of your friends?
By bingskee
@bingskee (5234)
Philippines
September 23, 2010 10:05am CST
A friend told me that two of her friends went naked in front of her while they took a shower after swimming. She did not take her panty off but the two went totally naked.
Are you comfortable doing that with your friends? I would not be comfortable with the idea. It would feel like your friend(s) already own you.
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@enterthehole (111)
•
23 Sep 10
I wouldn't feel comfortable going naked around my friends. Some things should be private!
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@ktmatunog (912)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
I have experience this with my dorm mates when I was just on college. Some are not ashamed running in the hallway naked! Others like it and teases her on doing this. They just laugh on something like that.
Some of my dorm mates, I can tell are also not comfortable when they undress or change in our room. We are 4 people sharing a room and I know how to react when they are going to change. I simply don't look or stare at them dressing because I think it's rude.
I change my clothes right in the corner even if they are around, and I trust them not to peek or whatever!hehe But of course, I use a towel to cover some other parts... lol I am really uncomfortable when I go naked with my friends because I am really conscious on my skin. I have a dry genetic skin disease and I don't want them to talk about it because it lowers my self - esteem. But I accepted it that I have this unique skin. I just don't want to talk about it over and over again.
@ktmatunog (912)
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
yeah, heard that too! lol and more dorm weird horror and funny stories! It was so fun staying at the dorm back then. but you are right too about privacy. If you want ever think of staying in a dormitory, you should choose the private room or the semi private room. Those you only have one room mate or on a room that you are all alone, or those rooms who have a comfort room in their own room.. It is so hard to do this when you are in a room with 4-6 people... even your things will be borrowed too!
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
17 Oct 10
When I was at school my classmates and me had to change our clothes and take a shower in one big room. There was no privacy and the showers were not separated in any way. I got used to undressing and taking a shower in the same room as others because we did it for years, and private cubicles were never available. I guess that is one of the reasons why I am not very shy today and I don't mind undressing in front of my friends. At my local swimming pool there are no cubicles either, there is only one big room with lockers, so we have to undress next to eachother and take a shower in the same big room.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
23 Sep 10
Oh this so reminds me of when I was in high school, I was a tiny bitty girl and my swim teacher had a rule that we could not change in the stalls but had to do it in front of all other girls.
I could never understand whey she had this rule and all rumors had it she was gay, she looked gay too. But anyways I always showered with my swim suit on and then changed into my clothes completely wrapped in a towel and was amazed by the number of girls that freely paraded their bodies back and forth as if there was nothing absolutely wrong with that. I think I felt more embarrassed for them as I hurried out there each time so fast after changing.
Now as an adult I will still do all the above. I believe my body is sacred and only the privileged have the right to see it.
@pandapig8 (362)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
I actually do not feel comfortable being naked with friends because I was taught growing up that being naked in front of others is a bad thing. One of my friends, years back, did this and I was shocked so I looked away. He wasn't ashamed. I was. Some people, I guess just grow up in different environments and develop different confidence levels or ideologies. Indeed, it may be okay in some sense also in some context. of course you will not go naked in front of your friend who is a girl if you are a man or you wouldn't go exposing your boobs to a man right? I think that as long as it is not taken for lustful reasons then it is okay. what's wrong with friends taking baths together if they do not think about lustful thoughts or engage in it. I think there is nothing wrong with that but personally for me, it is a level of comfortability and I am not comfortable showing more skin than just shorts :p
@typeandclick (190)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
Before, I thought I can't take that but when I was working abroad, living in an accommodation with 5 other Pinays, I experienced that. We're all working in the morning. And knowing that girls really takes time to bath, we can't wait for the first one to finish because we might be late for the company service (commuting in that country is expensive). At first I was shy, but later on I get used to it especially that my other roommates seems not bothered about it too.
@xenachinah30 (597)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
yes i know one person who do that.one of my friends in fact one of my co singer in band before in china she is always rushing going back to our girls quarter and just take off her clothes in front of us before rushing to the bathroom to take his shower.
it is very embarrassing because she dont have ettiquete she is a girl and she is not suppose to do that in front of people even her bestfriend or family member.
@xenachinah30 (597)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
yes maam,
i know one friend like that.one of my bandmates before always do that.she is always rushing to comeback to the girls bandroom because we will start working and singing one hour so she is always rushing to the bathroom to take a bath and before she will just take off her clothes in front of us only waring panty.
@Excelerate (30)
• Spain
23 Sep 10
Of course not. It's a bit hard to descript this hehe :P. In my opinion if some of my friends do that i would not be his friend anymore...