What makes a woman a good wife?

Oh, that's a good one formidexo , I like it.

Hi, formidexo, this is another point I left out. Respect for God definitely a quality of a good wife. Your opinion suits me friend.

I remember reading that a good wife is a gift from God. To those that have: keep cherishing her and make her rejoice all her life.

sweetie, I know there could be no woman with all these qualities..Some men think a few qualities from the list makes a good woman. I have just tried to help the Mylotters with my points so that it will be easier for them to respond, that's it. To me loving caring woman matters most, rest come after. Mel, You could pick two qualities from the list, others may use other points..

loving this response. exactly

Thanx sweetie. meluan, there is no difference. Women are the same, no matter where they are from. And you know they won't dare defy me on this.

Hi, Ambitiouslyleiah, every one has their own definition for a good wife. No wife can have all those qualities, I know that.I agree that a good wife can be a loving woman with her own qualities.

Ambitiouslyleiah! Your answer is supper. i just behave like 'I'. I don't change myself. Mine is from childhood love. So I think my husband as I. I never think he is another person. I have less than half of the qualities which Vijay state. We have many problems in our family. My boldness in facing the problems helps my husband a lot. I think we both are not perfect. but we much to each other.

Though I haven't been married my whole life yet, I think what makes a woman a good wife is the way she takes care of her family, the unconditional love for her husband and children will definitely sum up everything.

yes, vathsla, supporting husband financially, helping children in education, house management all are superb points dear.

hi, mercedlegurpa nice to note that you have many great qualities of a good wife.I also agree with you that no one is perfect in this world.I think a little bit of nagging is okay. Every man and woman does it. It should not be too much though.

Hi, SinRealm, thanks for sharing your views on good wife.It is so interesting to know about opinions of different people from different countries. It makes me know more about relationships. Mylot is a great platform to learn several things.

Indeed it is. :) Same goes for you, thanks for sharing your opinions.

hi, shamrack, this is another good point, managing home effectively. So we are now getting more and more ideas, thanks.

hi, indahfth you made me understand I have left many points. I agree with you about all those qualities.

if one woman has all these qualities then she will be much more than a saint dear eurekafemme. I just posted all qualities that came into my mind while posting. People are different dear. Every man is different. what you had given may be more than expectations for another man.. You tried your best honestly-this is more important, now you can be satisfied with that. May be your efforts will be recognized in future by your loving husband.

hahah, I am not expecting all these qualities in a woman. may be some from the list will be enough, I think.

That's a relief!

Hi, pogi all your points are good. I do agree with you.

great discussions by you both hardworkinggurl and iowachap. I enjoyed reading them.

Oh blush, blush. Are you someone's hubby cause you sure know exactly what a woman like me, likes from a man if he speaks like you.

Nah, maybe to some, but a good wife is one that is supportive, yet also knows how to stand her ground when needed, as the relationship for the most part should be 50/50 however one should have the advantage now and then but overall it would balance out, sometimes the man gives in, sometimes the woman, and one thing you have to realize sometimes it does not really matter as much who is right but that someone says they are sorry, and yes that can mean even if one is right, eating pride now and then so as to show you care can go such a long way. A wife should be able to cook decently, but so should the man, she should be able to dress up and put some make up on now and then, just like the man should dress up now and then, and take his woman out to dinner.. as you can see lots of these things balance out.. a woman should not be quiet until spoken too, should not have to cover her face in public, she is ot a object, or owned, or beneath a man.. and thats my say...

I get some more points from you mrsmakawak , thanks for sharing your views. I do agree with you that keeping a clean home is one of the qualities of a good wife.

hi, sarahruthbeth22 , nobody can have all those qualities. If you have a few from the list, sure you can make a good wife.

No I will never be a wife.I never will marry.As for the qualities. My guy thinks I'm pleasant looking. I do have and will use my manners. I can be caring ans friendly. I will support my guy til my dying breath. God in bed? He thinks so, that's all that matters.But to respect a husband. Never!I don't nag. what is the point? I am not his mother. And speaking of motherhood.Havig the abliity to have kids and Wanting kids are two different things. I have been able to have kids since age 13 but I will not! I don't cook. Chaste? Uh, No!This and the simple fact I see marriage as a prison are the reasons I will never marry.

hi, ANTIQUELADY I do agree a good husband can make a good wife. But not all the time, you know, sometimes you can't make a good wife unless she has some stuff within herself naturally.

nice share dear sister jai. It's true that a husband can make a woman a good wife. But still the woman also will have her own good qualities that make her a good wife.

I know dear jai, you are a good wife and a great mother. Sometimes we are not recognized for what we are. It's okay, this is what life about. We need to live with good and bad, success and failure, happiness and sorrow.

Ok,i am a good wife,i did my best to be a good one,but,my husband is not a good husband. Then,what's the use of having all the good qualities when the husband is not worth for all the sacrifices? It's not how a wife excel in her qualifications that matters...again...it is how she was treated as a human and a wife by her husband.

hi, RobtheRock, you are right that most women will not stay with their husbands if they don't respect them. But may be some women who still have to carry on with the relationship for the sake of children even they lost respect for the husband, this is my opinion Friend.

yeah, definitely she is more than a good wife.

Greetings Vijay. I see what you mean. But then in this case, isn't she still a good wife in spite of his indiscretions and earning of disrespect?

hi, ankster you have made great points there. Patience and being cheerful are top qualities of a good wife.As you said good wife should also maintain her cool and calm temper to smoothen life's ways.well said.

Thanks for acknowledging me.

hi, account, I do agree with you that a good wife she should have a good character traits, understanding, loving, carrying and responsible for her family, great ponts there from you.