Girlfriend Had Miscarriage :(

I saw your post yesterday but I did not comment because my answer would have been the same among others who commented on it... I am sorry that your girlfriend had a miscarriage :( There is not much you can do except be there. She is very emotional right now and she probably needs time to herself. You just need to be comforting and help her if she needs anything.... I am sorry to hear :(

i am married with my wife for 8 years now and we have a four year old son. before we hit the jackpot my wife had a lot of miscarriages. it was a battle that we need to face together. true that the ladies are the ones affected most emotionally and mentally. you dont need to say anything, for it will not comfort them. just be there, is enough. when i told my wife its going to be okay she said no its not okay. so by saying something just makes the damage bigger. not saying anything was the effective way for us. i am always there to talk and to listen, i was there to make her laugh and to forget what it felt like. oh i told her that if she was sad i was sad too, if she was hurt i was hurt too but we need to face this together. there are another chance to make it right. hope this helps.

I only saw this discussion after I saw your discussion that you wrote 2 days ago. I am ever so sorry to hear that your girlfriend had a miscarriage. I am not surprised your poor girlfriend feels like she is in pieces. She has an angel baby that she won't ever forget. Why a miscarriage happens is unknown and it is always really upsetting for the lady. I suggest you give your girlfriend loving support and lots of understanding. Nothing can bring your and her baby back so she needs to hear that you will stand by her at this very upsetting time in her life. Sadly a friend of mine suffered a miscarriage and then she went on to have two daughters. Good luck to you and your girlfriend.

I just had a miscarriage a few weeks ago myself. I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and started bleeding then miscarried a few days later, actually on Christmas Eve. I was in the emergency room from 10pm Christmas Eve until almost 3am Christmas Day. It has been really hard for me to handle. I know how she feels. Just be there for her and listen when she wants to talk, be sympathetic and lots of hugs & TLC. You might want to read this too and have her read it... it might help her to listen to stories from other woman who have had miscarriages as well... http://www.sidetick.com/poll.php?user=55312&poll_id=17125&sharer=55312 Take care & sorry for your loss RossBoyy. Jill

I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine what you are your girlfriend are going through. The main thing I can say is just be there for her. She may want to be alone, but at least let her know you are there. I don't know what else to say, unfortunately. Just be gentle, I guess.

Oh this is sad to hear and I am very sorry for the both you. I hope you find peace and know that sometimes things happen for a reason. A bit abrupt and I am sorry but hopefully later in life you will understand that perhaps God has other plans. My condolences to both of you and pray that she regains her health as she will need a bit longer time for comforting.