People who waste your time @#$%!

Time wasted by other people - People with no concept of time
@bounce58 (17387)
Canada
September 23, 2010 5:58pm CST
Have you ever dealt with people who don’t seem to have any concept of time? Who are unfazed by the thought of wasting other people’s precious time? I was just in a meeting which this guy scheduled 30 minutes before going-home-time. It would have been fine if he could have been quick about everything, and finished on schedule. But instead he kept dragging on and on about some of his topics and was oblivious to the many hints we kept throwing at him. Or this woman in front of me at a store checkout last night. I was in a 10-or-less line up and was happy to be the next in line so I could pay for the 1 box of razor-refills I had on my hand. Except I had to wait for this lady who was already at the counter, who actually had 12 items, waiting for her husband who was at the washroom, to pay for her stuff because she was a few dollars short! Oh c’mon! What do you do with people who waste your time?
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@RangaGirl (103)
• Australia
25 Sep 10
I get short-tempered with them in the end, 'though I try not to show it. I can't. As an aged care nurse, I am well-used to being buzzed by people who don't actually need anything. They simply want company. Beyond caring for their actual needs, I simply don't have time to stand around and "small-talk". Wish I did. One man calls my name constantly. When I go to him and ask what he wants, he says "to see you" or "I want to know what you are doing". Considering I have probably left at least one person in the shower and two on the toilet to answer his buzzer, it is incredibly frustrating and stressful - but he has no concept of that. I have always been impatient - waiting for buses was murder - but am getting more patient. I try to remember that we are NOT all the same, that some things simply can't be helped - and not to blame the check-out chick if her customer is the one holding up the queue. She is probably feeling really stressed too.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
30 Sep 10
Wow! You must have had a lot of practice in exercising patience in dealing with a lot of people who crave attention. Lately, I've been noticing that I easily get irritated, and people like these really frustrate me.
• United States
24 Sep 10
The meeting would have annoyed me if I didn't get paid for staying late! But lines and such don't bother me anymore. Years ago I learned to carry a journal with me and write when things like that happen, so the time isn't wasted. Sometimes I'd even jot down a poetic vent..:-)
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
29 Sep 10
If I were creative, then I guess I wouldn't mind being stuck in such a lull. I could definitely excercise my creative mind. But alas! I am not, so I'm stuck cursing myself, or the person causing the lull, under my breath.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Sep 10
Well you can't kill them. There are laws against that. It depends on what it is, but if I have to be somewhere, I will just say so and go.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
30 Sep 10
Yes! If only there was not a law against it, then a lot of them would be lying on the ground everywhere! Thanks dawn!
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
24 Sep 10
My adopted country is ful of aid back peope who haveno concept of time. It used to drive me crazy as I was brought up to be very time conscious in the U.K. What do I do? Easy. I never travel without a book in my bag so I read or read messages on my BB So as not to raise my blood pressure. It is awful but saying something is not going to make it better. It can onlychange with the young professionals who are time conscious. Bessings
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
29 Sep 10
Hi cynthiann. First off, I think there is something wrong with your 'L' key. Funny you should mention the BB. I just got mine, and I've just started/resorted to reading messages, and dealing with all the other apps when I get snagged somewhere because of some inconsiderate soul trying to waste my time. The novelty of this new toy has not worn off yet, so it's OK so far.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
30 Sep 10
Sorry - I should double check. The L key d wobbly on my son's laptop. I use his when I am home. Adore my BB as it keeps me in contact with family in the U.K. and Qatar. Suffering from tropical storm so no electricity at home or water. No time for Mylot either
@SilverKing (1003)
• Canada
29 Sep 10
Yes i know what you mean , too many times i was to trying to buy something when the person puts the order in then leaves either because they need to get some money from their car or because someone in their family needs to pay and are in the washroom. I think that this is incredably annoying and they should think more about others valuable time before deciding to waste it by being forgetful often.I hope people change their behaviors and start acting more like people did when society had more mannors.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
30 Sep 10
That would be easier though! If they leave to get something somewhere, I could easily shove the one-piece-item that I have to the face of the cashier. He or she would have no choice but to process me right there and then. Thanks SilverKing!
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
24 Sep 10
Much as I don't like them, there's nothing I can do about them. Since they are selfish, thinking about their best interest, what can I do? If we were to speak up, arguments are bound to happen, wasting even more time. In this case here, I will bear with it in the hope it will end soon. In the case of being held up in a queue, it's either I walk out without buying or I top up the difference for them. In any worst scenario, I will pretend to talk on the phone, making lots of unkind comments about them, embarassing them with lots of bad words. I won't give face to them.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
30 Sep 10
Yeah! That's what actually I was afraif of. If I did confronted them, it will just turn into an argument further wasting my time. I will just keep my comments to myself though. Thanks.
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@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
24 Sep 10
I usually just grin and bear it, or I will roll my eyes, sometimes I will look at someone else waiting behind one of these kinds of people and shake my head a bit and give sympathetic smile. I have even gone so far as to give people a few cents and even a dollar once to get them moving along when they didn't have enough to pay for thier stuff. It's worth a few cents to move people along sometimes. I am a busy work at home mom of three and there are times when I have to go and pick up my kids and I don't have time to wait for such people who obviously have all the time in the world.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
28 Sep 10
Maybe I am just a cheapskate to never have thought of giving people money to move them along, but I think that's really a worthwile suggestion when me being late will cost me money. Could I still shake my head, while give them money?
@bloemart (222)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
I think the cashier should know what they have to do if that thing would happen. Whenever someone try to waste my time, I just ignore them. Once is enough and I really sure that it would not be happened again.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
29 Sep 10
I've actually seen that! Where a cashier can just punch in a few buttons, and can put the current transaction on hold. She can then work on the next one, specially if the next person only has a few items. Unfortunately, I think they didn't have that option on the registers for that store.
• United States
24 Sep 10
The exterior side of me is grinning and looking patient but the inside of me begins to growl hoping they hurry up. Patience could be the answer however, how much of it can you tolerate in one day without even as much as flinching a tiny bit.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
29 Sep 10
That is a compounding factor! Once maybe in a day, would be OK, but not if you have a few of these incidents where you'd feel that you're day is getting wasted. And yes, there is only so much patience that you can hold on, sometimes you got to @#$%!