So called Friend wants to Date my Ex.

United States
September 23, 2010 6:12pm CST
So I dated someone for a few months and fell deeply in love with him, and something happened so we aren't talking anymore now one of my friends is texting me telling me telling me how she saw him and how fine he is yet when I was with him she had nothing but horrible things to say about him. I'm finding all this a little hard to swallow.
7 responses
@luxlyangels (1286)
30 Sep 10
yer its really bad. Now you will be seeing al the good qualities in the guy ,the ones you missed. Anyways it doesnt sound right and cool but there's nothing you can do about it, You had your chance and you blew it. But remember Our Mama always say we should forget about our ex and throw them away for the next less previledged.
• United States
24 Sep 10
So called is the right term as women there is sort of an unspoken rule that we do not date our friends exes that is a big NO! NO! Two things I can suggest is that you ex her out of your life as this no friend. The other suggestion is to let her have him and hopefully she will understand why you made this person your ex. Re-think the friendship...
@o2bnocn (2992)
• United States
24 Sep 10
I don't think that is a very good friend. I hate it when friends have only bad things to say about a boyfriend. These seem to be the same friends that want to rush you into marriage, and kids but want to look better than you. I hate to say it but there are some people in the world that only care about their status and looks in the world.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
Why dont you just tell her that all the things that she was saying about him is horrible and that she should not be saying things like that about other people.
• United States
24 Sep 10
I've been in the same situation.If she was a real friend i think she would still understand your feelings for him and leave him alone.I would just move on and realize that something better will come along, so don't sweat it.
@Lee8919 (35)
24 Sep 10
have you and your "friend" argued at all or had any disagreements? because if she didnt like him when you was with him she mite just be trying to spite you. Or maybe shes just winding you up, friends see some humour diffrent to how other people take it. Even so im sure theres plenty more where he came from, keep your head up and show them that it doesnt bother you.
• United States
24 Sep 10
I know it hurts but you have to move on. That chick is not a real friend. If she was, she wouldnt have even considered it.