Most painful experience LOVE did to you?

First relationship of mine, my girlfriend broke up with me for no reason, after our breakup she invited me over to her mini-concert, and when I got there she introduced me to a guy (I still didn't know stuff about the guy) but then she started dedicating most her love song so that guy. It was devastating... I went on a drinking spree to drown my depression. then my next relationship... My girlfriend dumped me for no reason. Though I think its her sister. After the breakup she stopped talking to me. Then my current relationship. My girlfriend is taking me for granted.

i had a relationship before and i really love him so much no matter what my family says against him, we live in oneroof for almost 3 years, he had no work for one year and i was the one working for us. when we fight he always pack his things and threatened to leave me then i was in the door beggig himnot to leave me. After a year he got his job and he hides his salary to me..i shouldered all the expenses in the house and borrow money from him when my budget is short. imagine that..but because i thought i truly love him i dont mind about it and think it was ok. i hide everything to my family and all they thought the flow of our relationship is good. He goes out with his friends every weekend and go home drunk and force me to have ***..it happened many times and one day i woke up, i dont love him anymore, i dont feel respected and cared as a woman. i decided to leave him and went to other placefaraway from him.Now i found a true lovewho respect me as a woman and as a person, we have a cute baby boy and we'll get married next month...

Hi. chiyosan When I was in love with this guy that I used to date. I was so stressed out when we broke up. I would not eat, I would lose my appetite. I did not want to be with anyone else but him. I felt so sad and depressed. All I wanted was him and no one else. I was very upset. I could not concentrate on my school work. It was such a sad time for me.

Ouch! Happened almost 7 years ago, when i found out that my fiance had another woman pregnant!.. that was it! I am able to moved on and happily married now... Unfortunately with him and the other woman, after 5 years and 2 kids, she dumped him for another guy.. much much ouch!

It is said you need to be faithful in a relationship. One should not be so faithful that you do something wrong and tell it on the face of your partner. I have been in a situation where my partner did something wrong and told me that she has done it. then she tells me that she does not hide anything from me. It was more painful to hear that.

For me love is the universal language that we have right now,regardless of what and who we are,the kind of relationship that i am traumatized with is being with someone that i love the most,that i had given all out of love to him and that in the end we will haven separate lives,we will not have a happy ending,in spite the love we have for each other when we are still together.And now i am afraid to love again for the scond time for i am still wondering from the past that i don't want to happen the second time around.

What's worse, I wonder? A breakup being so painful that you do things you are ashamed of? Or losing a piece of yourself bit by bit every day staying in a relationship that isn't right for you?

The girl who I had a serious crush on during school days was in love with someone else we were best pals and I did confess my love for her but she refused I tried to force it on her but it began to affect our friendship,In the end I decided to move one then I got proposed by a girl 2 months later ,our relationship lasted for 5 months but it was good enough to make her jealous ,and she indeed was..Lolz.

Huhuhuhu... my oh my! The most painful that had happened to me is I found out that he is a "gay" and not only that, he had experienced on "guys" and fallen in love with "guys"... huhuhuhu... (T_T)

i agree. that happened to me as well. I lost "ME" and ended up not knowing who i am or what i want. the most painful i experienced would be to love that person and put him in a pedestal then he'll lie on your back and even hurt in all ways he can. physical hurt can heal but emotional is way longer. it really is best to not involve yourself too much in a relationship and just enjoy every time you're together.

hello chiyosan! the most painful thing that love did to me was when i had to say goodbye to the one i love..because continuing our relationship would hurt another. i had to choose between being selfish and setting him free, for the peace of mind of all involved. another painful thing that love did to me was to make me lose myself..as you did. i did everything to make him happy, to the point that i have forgotten i have a self, i sort of depended on him for simply breathing life. i let him wormed his way in my heart and life so much that i had lost focus on my life. what's hurting is although he loves me in his own way, he never really made me feel that the would do the same for me. and i caught him cheating on me, not once but twice already. oh, nothing physical had happened because i caught it on time but i had lost so much trust in him that its affecting our relationship.i don't want to be like this, i want my original self, carefree but responsible, not bogged down by emotional baggages. i'm tired of always doing the loving, without receiving some back for my own. i am tired of always doing the understanding, the waiting when he would have time for me. and im tired of asking him who am i to him..i want my life back..

my career! I have to give up my career when it's in the peak. For the sake of peace and love i have to quit. Now i'm back,struggling with what is left,starting again from zero!

my mOst painful lOve did tO me, whem I'm in highschool, I knOw it's a puppy lOve. bUt |I already feLt pain. when I call him and yOu nOw what, a girl whO answered his phOne. she is asking if who am I. I tell her the tRuth that I'm the gf Of the Owner Of the phOne. It's very hard tO imagine because I already get jealOus in that time. bUt that girl is just his bestfriend. the painful experience is his bestfriend shOcked because he have a girlfriend in their school. We're nOt the same schOol, my schOol is very far tO him. bUt we're just having a commUnicAtion. bY txting and calling each Other. I cannOt imagine that he can d|O that tO me. even if he bReaking up with that girl jUst fOr me. I cannOt fOrgEt in what he did.

Most painful experience ever did happened to me when my boyfriend cheated on me. I will never forget that day, its totally heart breaking.

I think when my girlfriend cheated on me once. That was the most painful feeling I have ever had. I was having a hard time trying to fix my broken trust.

hmmm for me, the most painful in a relationship is when you break up and you not even friends at all. it happens to me twice already. i cant of any reason why he cant make friends with me. i mean after all what been through and then after the relationship as if we dont know each other? gosh. its painful to me. because i want to make friends with them.

The most painful experience with regards to LOVE for me would have to be during my high school years when I loved someone but couldn't actually have a relationship with the person because although I had known that we would have a shot, I knew in my heart that it was immoral. I can't disclose much details but all I can say is that I had felt genuine love for that person. I went through a depression for about 3 months where I didn't talk much and I didn't eat much. It hurt me because I had to choose between revelation and morality. I guess I just realized that sometimes, what we believe in is more important than what we believe can actually be. We can always assume something but our principles can never be assumed. Our principles are our foundations in life and I wouldn't trade that for something that would take my morals away.

yeah i've experienced that.....i never want to experience that again...in fact i don't feel like talking about it now and give too much details about it. but to sum it up, yes, i've felt that before. i felt as if i "lost myself" and almost lost my sanity...i'm glad i recovered (after a very long time, about more than a year, which felt like a decade)...i suffered from depression and other crazy things... well thank God I'm over that phase.... I'm making sure i'll never have to experience that again.

I am in painful right now because of love.., I fell in love with a guy and I give all my love for him and I just got a little from him and he treat me only as his friend... This is not what I am expecting from him but I cant please him.., In my side.., It was very painful.., and I am always out of my mind now a days....

one of my experience,is that when i saw my bf tOgether with my bestfriend kissing it was such so painful for me to move on i was mesmerized for a mOnth..cAnt you imagine they trait me,and the most painful in that situation is that they are both traitor..