Do you think i am having a bad time now?
By ggeeta
@ggeeta (154)
India
September 24, 2010 9:54am CST
Hi friends,
I just believe in god and don't usually believe in astrologers. However,from the past few days I have been experiencing somethings so unusual like they have never happened to me so far and feel so much that am going through a bad period.
let me tell you the incidents so that you can suggest me some thing to come out of this.
there is this site where i have been a good members and the owner has been paying me on time every time, but this time when i have asked her for payment the owner said that she has got some repair going on in her site and it might take any longer, it has been nearly many days that i never got paid though i struggled a lot.
second incident : there is this friend of mine who has been so good to me all these days, but suddenly yesterday she seems to warn me not to tell about anything, i never understood the reason as to why she has to say so. she just warned me not to talk much with her from now on.
third incident : my dad for no reason started scolding me saying me that i create nuisance always and that i make a big issue for even a small thing.
then... i have been paying the telephone bill of my house and this month it is double the amount which it has rarely happened.
all these things make me feel as if my time is not good now, one astrologer has recently said that i have a bad period for about 4 months from now and I could see this clearly.
Because, no one seems to really speak with me well, people seem to hurt me even though i never speak with them, financially too, i am spending more than what i am earning...
I really don't know as to what to do in this situation, but still I am staying positive, i have come to one decision not to speak to anyone until this bad period ends. I don't know of other things to reduce the bad effects of this period.
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4 responses
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
24 Sep 10
Hi ggeeta,
Whether you believe in it or not the fact is that Astrology does exist. I do not say that the astrologer you met is correct in calculations or not, but going by what you mention in the discussion (an also the previous ones, I have been to those), it is a fact that you are having a bad time period.
Your not speaking out is the major issue. People, how so ever close, must communicate and this is a major factor that builds the relations. Unfortunately, the situations you are in at the moment may be an outcome of your inhibitions - that you think you are always wrong. I had mentioned this earlier too, and again I mention it here - if you choose to live in a closed shell, no one (yes, NO ONE) would care to peep inside. If some one does today, s/he would definitely lose hopes and would go away just because of your living in that shell.
This would have a negative impact on you again and you would feel more depressed. Belief if God is fine but too much of anything is really bad and your belief that God is your only friend and would be there, though true, would lead you into further problems. Reason - God would come to you in the form of humans and you would remain inside your shell and never speak out to even Him when He comes. It is still high time - please move out of your shell.
Take Care,
Sids.
@ggeeta (154)
• India
25 Sep 10
sid, thanks for your response. See How can i speak with people and bring about more fights tell me? and more tensions? I have said in my discussion that people are just speaking harsh even though i never spoke with them, then how can i move on friend?
tell me how can i come out of the shell, i really want to come out of this shell and i don't know what i have to do, communication is not always rewarding.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Sep 10
@ggeeta,
If you feel that all people whom you talk to or try to mix with, end up in fighting with you, or telling you harsh words....Hmmm... the situation is grave. I would have to know more about you and your family and backgrounds to help you find a way to the problems... I hope you understand. And my lot is not a place for this. Maybe some other media like email or chats.
But for now, I think you should approach some of the people who are close to you and ask them about your minus / negative points, I mean what they dislike in you and maybe you can identify with some of them. Then try to get rid of those. That is all that can be said as of now... But I feel this is not a solution to your problems.
If interested, tell me if you would like me to assist you in this... Message me here at mylot (using the message facility).
Take Care.
Sids.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Sep 10
@jonjee,
Yes, that is so very true that God will answer all prayers and the catch here is as you mention - in His own time. Unfortunately, the situation and problems Ggeeta is facing need some solution faster than this. I have been following her posts and feel that way.
Again, God is not going to come down Himself to help anyone. He would send some messenger who most likely would have a human form. Hope you agree with this.
Take care,
Sids.
@lymcheetah1234 (40)
• China
24 Sep 10
My friend, I'm glad that you stay positive. Don't worry, people sometimes have their hard time. Once upon a time, i got my left foot hurt because of falling off my bike, my wallet stolen, and a bad score at an exam. That was really my worst day. But when i went through it, everything was ok again. We don't know when the bad time comes, the most important thing for us to do is to keep positive and confident, as the old Chinese saying,"When enemy comes, it will be stopped by our army; when water comes, it will be covered with soil." Come on, my friend, be optimistic and you will get through it.
@ggeeta (154)
• India
25 Sep 10
cheetah thanks a lot, i did had this kind of situations in the past too, but i was never scared of such things, i was always courageous to face situations and accept them in the course of my life, but now, I fear, i don't know why, though i am optimistic one side, there is a corner in my heart which always tells me to be careful, be away from people, to fear the situation. i don't know what is really going on with me. thanks cheetah, i hope i will march forward come across all these hurdles for sure.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
24 Sep 10
I think sometimes our bad times come but there is also a life in bad times. Because you may get a experience in bad times that how can you handle the situations in this time. I also sometimes face my bad times. And there are too many worst things are happen in this time. I think it is also a life so you may also to ability to face this situation and there is also some solution which only you know how to handle it.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
7 Oct 10
Hello welcome to mylot
Friend the stars that were in the sky at the time of birth have there effect on us, we have bad time and good time depending upon the ruling plantes.. i have strong faith upon easten astrology, that is done on the basis of exact time, place and date of birth,
Thanks for sharing. Cheers.
Professor. .
