Cheated by friends

I think some people are born with that gene to cheat. And others are normal. :) By the way, one of those aunts who was trying to get the cousin who beat me up and me reconciled (with me being declared as wrong for breaking relationships), has been adequately punished by god. Her son was found embezzling in Zambia. He is thrown out of from his job, lost his certificate, and his marriage is headed towards a divorce. :) God has his ways saphy. I'd accused them of embezzling my parents properties, and look, god proved that they do have those genes. Ten people would now be more inclined to believe what I am saying about them than what they are uttering about me. :) God is great sweetie. :)

I know he is, Vannie. But i still need to get my hands on them, though.

Hi dear, We must have such a lot of things to tell. Ok, it may be happened incidentally, (whatever it may be) relax, we are cheated by them and of course, we may be happy when they realised through certain punishments. They deserve it or not, I don't know. However, people does such things purposively would get disappointed later on. This is my experience. But, there are few, still running with the same business and I think they will realise the seriousness when they get cheated by others. Regards, Thank-s

Hi dear, What you said is a fact and I realized it only so late. We should keep our friends (not all) upto a certain distance away and it is a must. May be all friends are good and they are only friends, and human beings. Blind trust and confidence make us more closer with them. But, there may be people take advantage of the same. It directly happened to me as well. Even I learned that we should not keep any kind of business or money related contacts with them. If we cheat or they cheat by us – both are harmful and spoil the relationship. It is nice to talk with you and thanks for your response. Regards, -thanks

Hi dear, I like your comments. It is life and things may happen like that. But holding on such incidents for a long period and spoiling the relationship is not advisable. So, what you did is highly appreciable. We all will do mistakes at circumstances. Small things we should discuss and settle it, so that we can be more closer and the relationship will become firm. There may be occasion of misunderstandings. Where we should always take initiative and apologies for them. Such things are rarely only will happen. We should identify our mistakes and clear it in the beginning, we can make a strong and understanding relationship for ever. Thanks for your response and comments. Regards, - thanks

Come to think of it, you could say I was. My cousin once borrowed some monies from me. When I needed the monies, I asked him for them, he beat me up, calling me all sorts of names. I guess I became wiser since then. Dad has been giving monies to others, but I ensure that we have proper documentation.

Yeah, I have a lousy set of relatives Mel...

Vannie, you should NOT let people treat you like that. Tell that cousin of yours i will come there and beat the living hell out of him. He won't ever see the sun rise again. Who the hell does he think he is. You better start warning those relative of yours. I will make their lives hell. And don't even dare taking their side on this.

Hi dear, You said it. Once we find he/she is not trust worthy, it is better to cut off or ever, unless it is not proven as genuine. Someone intentionally do it, better to leave them. Thanks for your comments. Regards, - thanks

Hi dear, If there is a true friendship, it can make magic’s. For some, there may be enough good friends. Especially, in the school we may have a lot of friends and we make good enjoyment with them. But to get a real and trusted friend is difficult. Like in your case, we may identify the fault after a long period only. However, ignore such friends and read the friends on your free time. If you evaluate nicely, go with them as good friends and they will be with us as good friends for ever. Thanks for your response and comments. Regards, - thanks

Hi dear, Yes, it is so painful when a friend does it to us. Because we are part of the society and circumstantially we will be friend with many. Only as being friends, it is not necessary that they should treat you well. Some people really keep other’s value and respect each other. But in common, just for same, many used to fool around with friends and make fun on them. This we can understand and impact will not last long. The main thing that we can do is understand our friends well in advance. Also, we can study them with a few incidents with them, if they are good or not. Earlier there was a similar subject and it was mentioned that as being friends for 10 years and above, they never know anything more about their families. So there are friendships with various types and for a better friendship, we need to work for it. All in the name of friends are not real friends and they are not beyond the name ‘friends’. Regards, -thanks

Hi dear, Yes, if we are in the right track, friendship can lead to any way. Always be watchful about the friends, especially if we enter into new friendships or being friend to someone by an another person. Some time we may get friendship with someone incidentally and which will lead to a long relationship. But always we should be observed the nature of the friend and whether it is matching with us. As you said, we can get many friends around, but getting good friends is a luck and will be a bless. Thanks for your comments. Regards, -thanks

Hi dear, It is a common diseases. Only what we can do is that beware of such people. We know that many are cheated by occasion and at certain time, by carelessness also. Mostly if our friends cheats, they are taking advantage of our friendship and in such case, we should study them and don’t give a chance to repeat again the same with us. Thanks for your comments. Regards, -thanks

Hi dear, Yes, as being a friend for some time and with certain occasions we realise the sincerity of the friendship. We may be in touch with, but the relationship may not be as strong as we lost the trust and reliability. For only sake of being good, we may keep them just as friends and not more than that. Thanks for your comments. Regards, -thanks