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Hi dear, Yes, for someone it is a pledge. Those who did wrong things should get punished. Revenge is a kind of punishment which we determine. Normally, we are people can do any wrong, and if they do it towards we people, we cannot ask, why? It is the duty of the authorities. However, people who got a bitter experience with someone always pray to get a similar experience to them either through a revenge or by simply cursing them. Thanks for your opinion and comments. Regards, - thanks

Wow.. World is a small place and we can find our mirrors but I never thought it would be here at mylot that I would find one. Yes we do share so many similar thoughts. Me and my wife are ok and I have just returned attending a seminar and she is presenting one today. Have a great weekend. Regards, Sids.

Hi dear, I join with upto a certain extent but not fully. Perhaps, you may not have such a touching experience. I am not telling that we should take revenge upon a person. I used the word ‘revenge’ to get a clear meaning of the concept. There are instances where we get a long and strong relationships some good friends or any one for a long period relationships. May be among friends, business partners etc. But there were a situation of heavy cheating and you realize the fact after a long period of time. It is a just example only. You were simply mocking by other or ‘utilising’ or ‘using’ in the name of friendship and ridiculed for a long period of time. The grudge, and the humiliation upon them is quite natural and when you realize that ‘you were cheated’ by those close ones, may be really painful or make you sad enough. This would later on divert to litigation and hatred which ultimately form a shape of revenge. Of course, should not be promoted, but in our inner mind, such a feeling will generate and we will not allow them to just pass you by the way as it is. If you faced such a situation, then only you can really feel it. However, thank you so much for your comments and sorry for the delay to respond you in time. Regards, - thanks

Hi dear, Yes, if they realize and make self correction there itself, it’s the best solution for it. Simple things we can forget and it is quite natural. We should forgive them as well. But there may be instances where it is beyond the limit and hurt the feelings and making heavy losses due to cheating. Such things are to be considered as sinful and not appropriate. However, many think that taking revenues is not so appropriate and somebody is there to look after such things. I am not at all agree with that and what we do here in this world ends up here itself. If this is the case, they are the winners, if we do not do anything. Thanks for you comments. Regards, Thank-s

Nice of you. I think you got a great team of friends and treat them well. Few things we can understand that as being humans, it is genuine and may happen. But realizing and correct them in time and move forward is the best solution for it. I really appreciate your way of thinking. Thanks for you comments. Regards, Thank-s

Hi dear, It is a kind of frustration and at times we feel so furious and lot of feelings comes in our mind. Many crimes emerge as a result of revenge. In normal sense no one become criminals and there may be a reason behind it. At many times we may think of take revenge up the people who made foul play with us. But as times moves on the intensity will get reduced we may pardon to the case. But as it natural and related independently with different people we cannot predict how the reaction from different people. Regards, -thanks

Hi dear, In reality, we may not have any intention. But certain facts which we have faced due to someone’s foul play would end up in revenge. We may get irritated at most occasions due to such things. The heavy blow to our life by someone which cannot be forgettable or the damage to our life due to someone in certain cases emerges for situations like this. However, we would control ourselves upto our maximum and when there comes the extremes. Many are of the opinion is revenge is a pleasure and it gives a kind of satisfaction. It is correct if we analyze with a psychological approach. However, thank you for your comments. Regards, - thanks

Hi dear, The culture form of a vengeance is forgiveness, of course it is true and that is the case many are still in good shape. But there are cases where our cultured or disciplined performances were questioned by such deeds. There the issues arises – but we will somehow manage with certain proper alternatives. It is good to know that we can manage upto a certain extent. Thanks for your comments. Regards, Thank-s

Hi dear, Yes – It has its own importance. If we value others and they do foul plays in our life or play with the rest of life, and they make enjoyment – it should be answered for it. As you said, we can forget simple things and major issues and repeated moving is some kind of disgraceful act need to be considered. It is not that we should spoil their life, but they should realize the impact by spoiling others’ life. If they deserve, there is no body to do that for them. Thanks for you comments. Regards, Thank-s

Hi dear, Here you said it only because you are helpless. I understand from your other comments that you have gone through a rigorous life experience though out the time. You must have got my early sayings. If we de-motivate ourselves, no one can do anything for you. You must identify what you are and come up with your power. If we go back, others will just send us to the bottom or at the back side. So, think better and promote whatever is in our inner mind. You become so dumb due to the troubles made by others to you. You should take your rebirth and fight for your life. An new and strong Vandana should come in your place. Your words should have hope and expectations. You should think for tomorrow and just forget about the past. Even I got a dam past in my life. If I just take it one by one and cry over it, we cannot reach anywhere. So, remember, if anyone hurts you, you should ask why? It is your privilege. You should honour yourself. I think you understand what I mean to say. So, best regards and go ahead. Regards, - thanks

Hi dear, Yes, at many occasions it happens. People hurt by knowingly or unknowingly. Upto a certain extent we can realize and excuse from our part. But if it really hurts and taking advantage of the incident, all may not be able to take it granted. In such cases, people think of a vengeance and as you said, it is natural and sometimes it happens depend on the intensity of the matter. Thanks for your comments. Regards, -thanks

Hi dear, Probably as you said, it creates further problems if we go for a revenge. Still many are opted for it. Why? It may be because they get some kind of satisfaction by doing so. It is a derived pleasure which emerge due to disappointment which has caused by someone through a foul deed. Someone did some wrong to you and which you cannot bear it. May be of any time, it must have made you a kind of loss or image. May be monetary or of any type, one person must have exploited and degraded. Also, the other person may be enjoying life by spoiling the other. This is the case where mostly people prefer to go for revenge. I am not justifying it, but analyzing the different reasons if anyone do it. Regards, - thanks

Hi dear, It seems that all want to give the responsibility to give a chance to God to take revenge on someone’s errors. I think there is a mistake in our thinking and thoughts or our understandings. Like you, there are millions and millions of people from ages, this is following. What then we will do. I think if someone erred to us, we, the direct impacted only can judge them. None other than us is the responsible person to question them. If we don’t do it, he will simply escapes. As all of us know, God is busy in many things and if he couldn’t get a chance to listen to our prays, what we will do? Thanks for you comments. Regards, Thank-s