If I were you, what would you do?

I would feel the same way as what you've felt coz what you did is really wrong! You felt awkward coz deep down inside you, you know that you DID wrong! No offense but it's really not right to sleep with someone who's already taken. Let's put it this way, what if you were his girlfriend and your man slept with another woman, what would you feel? You should stop what you were doing and find someone who really deserves you and your love. That man was a jerk- for cheating on her gf! Don't wait that time will come that it'll happen to you. What goes round, COMES around! Hope you'll realize that! It's your happiness that'll count in the end anyway. God bless! ^_^

Wait a minute. I could not really catch it. The one that slept with you was a man, and you are a man either, right? If that's the condition, then, well...phew... Well, if I were you I would absolutely felt guilty. But, life must go on and it would be better for me not to show it, because it would break the atmosphere. It's true that you have to fix what you have done, regardless right or wrong, and one part of that fix is to show nothing happen between you and your friend. It's gone now, so just act normally.

I would not say anything to either or them and I certainly would not allow myself to get involved with him again for any reason. It is certain that he is in a relationship the same as you are and you do not need to get involved with him.

hi, If I haven't read it wrong, this guy your referring to was not your ex-boyfriend right? rather his just a friend, and what happen between you and this guy in the past is just a one night stand ( or it isn't???). You said he throws admiring looks at you in front of her girl (or maybe it was just your imagination?) Do you feel "something" for this guy? I mean like more than friends? I Think you feel "something" for this guy because you wouldn't feel awkward and guilt if its only "lust" that led you two in bed before. If his girlfriend is also your friend, I think you should tell her the truth that you slept with his boyfriend, she will be angry at you, and that's for sure, but in this way you will be lighten by this burden you have right now, and she will be knowledgeable on what his boyfriend is doing when she is not around. If this girl decides to break-up with her botfriend, remember it wasn't your fault! you may not be the only girl this guy is taking in bed! if the girl ignore what you say then at least you've warn her. But, if they break-up please do not grab the opportunity to be this guys new gf, because this guy doesnt deserve to have a gf at all because he doesn't know how to treat a woman! if he can do this with his recent gf then he can do it to you! hope that I have help... have a nice day!!! twinkle

I'd say I'd feel awkward too but hey bygones are bygones and you need to move on. But I suggest that if he makes advances towards you that you do not go for it as it may end your friendship with your friend who is now his gf.

if i were you ,sure first i felt guilty but just keep close with you girl an then dont care about you friend girl or you can just not greet her when meet her and then dont see you friend girl when she was visiting you or etc

As long as he is in a relationship you have to keep your distance. If you slept with him while they were not together there is no problem with it. If you did it while they were together you definitely have to separate yourself from the pair. Feeling guilty is a good thing because it means you have morals. But remember to practice those morals every day and don't overstep boundaries or become a problem for the relationship. If he doesn't want to be with her it won't last and then you will have your chance with him if you want it.

i feel like you're to guilty to what yiu have done. just act naturally. in all fairness to him, he did not do anything to let your girl know that you have slept with him. everything's cool! Be cool! ;)