What should I do
@cacao201009010 (16)
China
September 25, 2010 10:05am CST
Recently,I am very puzzle.I feel very uncomfortable.I dont know what should I do.I hope you can give me some advice.
I am a student from one of the institutions of higher education,I will graduate this year.But we have a chance to go on stuying in a university whether we pass the entrance exam successfully.However, we must pay much money to buy books and so on.For this ,I dont know what should I do. I have two choices,the one is that I will start work after I graduated.The other one is that I will take part in the exam and go on stuying life.I hope I can choice the last,but I have much money and I have no courage to tell the parents the idea.Because when I would become a two grade student ,I told my parents I must finish the school no matter whether we have enough money or not.In fact,we had enough money at that time and my parent hope I can leave school.And I make the promiss that I will start work once I graduate from the school. So I will loss my promiss whether I go on studying after graduate.
Tell me what should I do?
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@bird123 (10643)
• United States
25 Sep 10
How about try for both?????/ Take the entrance exam. Apply for jobs. If you get a night job, maybe you can still go to school by day. If you get a day job, maybe night school or part time school is possible. If you don't get a job, the extra education will only help in the future. Tell your parents that it is the smart thing to do. Oh, some employers pay part of the costs for education. Employers love smart employees.
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
25 Sep 10
Well, it is clear that you do not feel comfort because you are under a lot of stress lately. To make such high promise to your parents must be something you are thinking about, and to deal with the responsibility is not easy, either.
First, relax. Do not see your obligation or promise as burden, but something you need to do, or you love to do. Because if you need and love something, you are going to do anything no matter difficult the risk, and you will do it easier because your heart is set.
Second, take a little break. You don't need to spend a lot of money for that, just hang out with friends, or go to the cinema, or do something out of your daily activity. In other words, have a little bit fun.
Third, just talk to your parents about your problem. Ask their judgement and suggestion, and the most important thing, ask for their prayer and blessings.
Hope this helps...
