why do we need a life-partner ????
By ashutoshs8
@ashutoshs8 (373)
India
September 25, 2010 10:08am CST
Ever since my school days, I frequently ask myself this question that why we people need a partner to live our life. But gradually i found it that in the long journey of life we need a partner with whom we can share everything like our sad, happiness, problems everything. Life gets very smooth and reliable when we have someone who keep an eye on us and help us in doing everything and even share the burden....
seriously we can not imagine what life would be without a partner...
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14 responses
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
25 Sep 10
My typo error, should be "one to share our life with".
Well as for your question I'm not an expert and can't answer much except that there are many contributing factors like finances, different vision and the like. It's sad to fall out of love.
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@ashutoshs8 (373)
• India
25 Sep 10
you are right but buddy can you say even after knowing that how worth this relation is they normally quarrel over small issues and get separated...why?
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@sauravmillion (929)
• India
25 Sep 10
I think you are right but I feel personal ego also plays an important role in their separation
@grkelly (1206)
• Malta
25 Sep 10
Yes I agree with you. A husband/wife is there to share everything with you. That is why it is important to make a good choice and find a person who is really your soulmate and who clearly understtands you and how you feel, respects you and is there to give a helping hand in everything. One needs to share and not be selfish to be a good partner. This will help to put the other person first and foremost.
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@ashutoshs8 (373)
• India
25 Sep 10
yes it is great to have someone who never make you feel that you are not alone never...they make life beautiful but still in some cases you can find the disorder of it....i do not know why?
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
25 Sep 10
There is another consideration which is the major thing why u need a partner !!
It's the pleasure..
Every human being needs pleasure , so this life partner is considered to be a needy thing for this kind..
Next comes, the other things like, caring and standing by their partner throughout his\her life in all ways and in all means..
@ashutoshs8 (373)
• India
25 Sep 10
I am not agree with your 1st response as a partner is never meant for pleasure ...no one will spare his life with someone only to get pleasure but yes i agreed with your second response.
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
25 Sep 10
I didnt mean pleasure alone..i'm telling pleasure is also one of the things for a life partner..
@sauravmillion (929)
• India
25 Sep 10
No Ashutosh I think he is partially right.I am not saying he is completely right.Pleasure is something which we do need in our daily life.You can feel the pleasure of being with your life partner not by just sharing your bed or body but also you can feel the same pleasure by understanding needs of each other and sharing your heart.
@blueangelwrites (149)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
We need a witness to our lives and also to bear witness into another's life. We are not created to be alone.
@ashutoshs8 (373)
• India
27 Sep 10
Definitely you are right and even in our holy books we can know that we can never remain single as marriage is such a beautiful system . But the important thing is two peoples involvement in making one life.
@pogi253 (1596)
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
A life partner is indeed vital after a certain period of life. Although s3x play a vital role but attachment between life partners is more stronger than s3xual attachment. They get physical and emotional support from each other.
@ashutoshs8 (373)
• India
26 Sep 10
life partner just not share our live even he did everything that is good for our relation and our family . She/he united to give everything that he/she can capable of.
@pinoycity (575)
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
I grew up being a loner and certainly asked that questions to myself many times. But, as the saying goes, "no man is an island" - gradually you will feel emptiness inside you. You look around and see happy or sad faces sharing their happiness/sadness to a companion and you feel you are missing something.
Then, you fall in love and you don't want to be alone anymore. That's life.
@pinoycity (575)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
Yes, it is always better this way. It is not healthy to keep your emotions to yourself. Even positive emotions, like happiness, is quite difficult to keep inside you. You have to release your emotions.
@ashutoshs8 (373)
• India
26 Sep 10
it is very obvious that we feel loneliness when we are alone and then we look out for someone of our kind so that we can fall in love with him and can spare our loneliness.
@ashutoshs8 (373)
• India
26 Sep 10
surely it is their problem of not able to keep the relation intact....
I can say that now a days if two people fall in love then due to their misunderstanding and when they understand each other they get separated
@Wizzywig (7847)
•
25 Sep 10
I dont think we do. there are always people around that you can share lifes ups and downs with. it doesnt need to be just one person. We need different types of support at different times in life. I dont want someone keeping an eye on me and there are some things that I would much prefer to deal with by myself.
@ashutoshs8 (373)
• India
26 Sep 10
well as i said the opinion changes from people to people ..some like to share with someone and some like to share with everyone they know...
@LaurenInLA (2270)
• United States
25 Sep 10
I don't think that we need a life partner but the journey is much more pleasant if we have one. The joys and sorrows of life are much more enriched if they are shared with someone who you care about and who cares about you as well. I've been married for 38 years and cannot imagine life without my husband. Good luck
@ashutoshs8 (373)
• India
25 Sep 10
thats great that you have already experienced the thing that this topic is meant for...i liked your views and can imagine how beautiful a life could be by having some one.
@JeyakumarDickson (277)
• India
26 Sep 10
usually everyone in this world needs a life partner, in which they can work together and share their love, happy time, sorrows ......and it is surely needed to have a life partner
@ashutoshs8 (373)
• India
26 Sep 10
yes you are right that we need a life partner to dispatch the loneliness and sadness even every kind of trouble and the good things as they make everything special to us .
@Skade24 (750)
• Romania
26 Sep 10
Is not impossible to live alone. But is something crucial to have someone besides us, that could understand us when we are angry, sad or happy, that could give us support when we need it the most, but mostley we need to be loved, and to love, thats what makes us so happy, by having someone besides us.
@ashutoshs8 (373)
• India
26 Sep 10
you are right friend...we can not live our life to its fullest until we share our felling...
@ashutoshs8 (373)
• India
26 Sep 10
well there is nothing left that i can ask you more about the life partner but still we can get breaking of relationship ...so strange
@ashutoshs8 (373)
• India
26 Sep 10
well said we can not bear this loneliness . It is self destructive and a normal people can not bear that all . so he search for a right soul who can remove that loneliness.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
The time that I broke up with my first relationship I tell to my self that I can live alone without any partner in life as long us my family is their beside me but one time I realized that i'am so sad without a partner and I really don't know the reason why I feel that way but I think it also because my family members like my sisters are busy in school and work and also my parents and I need someone that I can talk too about my dilemmas and happy stories.
